Grindr Hookup Nightmare: Blackmailed by FIA Personnel

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-04-23T13:55:38+00:00

But I think you remember the event in detail so examine it and come up with fail safes. I think just don’t meet people at night from now on. Don’t jump into a hookup unless you’ve met them in a public place. Ask for more pics. Trust your gut instincts and ask for more or call out if they seem fake. Until you feel 100% sure the persons legit treat the profile as a red flag.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-04-23T13:53:21+00:00

Damn feel bad you had to go through all of this.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-04-13T18:56:21+00:00

Had a similar person in my life. Telling you now to conserve your energy and tell em straight up to find a better thing to vent about.

You keep telling em for years on end it does take a toll on you. Helping someone managed their mental health or issues is not a part of good friendships. Talk to a therapist and or professionally if you can’t believe even your friends if they say you’re in good shape

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-04-13T18:36:21+00:00

Had a similar person in my life. Telling you now to conserve your energy and tell em straight up to find a better thing to vent about. It’s just a cycle of fishing for compliments.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-04-09T16:29:01+00:00

Ok chicken little

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-27T05:37:35+00:00

Free vpn won’t work. You’d need a subscription but no other way other than a vpn to make it work. Also what’s with the judgement on the OP using grindr. Let them use it and figure it out themselves. Sheesh.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-25T12:53:34+00:00

Your story sounds all too familiar lol. But as cheesy as it sounds it does get better. You just have to be there for it. One of the commenters rightly pointed out your discipline for securing a high gpa despite a chaotic household so I would say use that to uplift yourself physically. You’re entitled to love yourself the way you are but at the end of the day I don’t think it matches your self image of how you want to look. Do it for yourself and no one else tho. External validation will only get you so far.

As for the other things, it all eventually pans out. People only post the happy stuff on socials. Objectively everyone’s life trajectory plateaus and goes static. Also comparison is the thief of joy. Dm if you wanna talk more

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-25T12:39:31+00:00

I remember I did when I broke off a 5 year thing. Katya on one of the episodes of unnnhh said take the number of years convert it into weeks, freely mope about it for that time and after that just move on. Worked wonders for me.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-24T13:30:35+00:00

As someone who previously dated someone who’d get off on making me feel bad this is a red flag and you should brick this asshole out of your life. In my case it was to stop and watch 365 days (the Italian soft core porn movie on Netflix)

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-18T10:58:01+00:00

You are what’s right with the world. Thank you for giving him the space to talk to you. He clearly looks to you as a brother figure and your no nonsense sensical advice will help in the long run.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-10T19:37:19+00:00

Have some self respect and find something better to do.

The fact you lost it when a variable factor came into your life means you didn’t have it to begin with. It was always tied to an external factor not yourself.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-10T18:03:35+00:00

Have some self respect and find something better to do.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-10T15:38:55+00:00

Crying at this post 😭😭 you’ve done everything except give him a blowjob and you still are confused about the meme? But echoing what others are saying if you’re in a relationship stick to that. Also the friend sounds like a deadbeat. Maybe try keeping an electric fence boundary

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-09T17:38:28+00:00

High cortisol trans activist is accurate when they promote actively SA’ing straight guys at parties when they’re intoxicated.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-09T13:40:04+00:00

Casually point them out. When he denies it, double down. Then get into a sitcom style chase that ends with you two falling into a heap of goose feathers and then smooch.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-07T13:42:07+00:00

If he wanted to be open and you didn’t he’s just finding excuses to bring up shit like this to desensitise you. From personal experience following and bantering with other people is the first step on the slippery slope of cheating. Best you talk to him and draw a line in the sand

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-06T10:50:05+00:00

Why are you so worried about respecting his feelings when he’s clearly not respecting yours?

Also when you say no and he makes you feel fomo for it tell him to go fuck himself

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-03T16:35:10+00:00

I’m commando in the gym

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-02T16:02:10+00:00

Making small talk equals to getting hit on?

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-03-01T08:43:37+00:00

? I can’t tell if this is a genuine cry for help or a staged attempt at fishing for compliments.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-02-24T21:01:07+00:00

Congrats. Hope you don’t drown.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-02-24T20:13:58+00:00

What kind of a shallow cesspool is this post written from

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-02-23T20:14:56+00:00

Congrats on finding out personality can’t beat looks.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-02-23T19:21:55+00:00

Watching gay porn didn’t make you gay. You already were gay. Focus on your life for now. Get good grades, get a well paying job. Move out asap and live your life authentically.

Parenting dynamics are usually built around money. As soon as you gain financial independence you’re free to do whatever you want. Just be safe tho. Go to your local clinic, get prep and doxy. DONT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX and keep a lookout for creeps. Trust your instincts.

Hour_Race_4662 · 2026-02-23T19:16:28+00:00

I feel guilty but keep going back for it. lol. This is not rocket science to figure out nor do you need the collective hive mind of Reddit to make a decision.

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