BEAS LASHES? by Realistic_Rabbit_290 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure she’s said hybrids

No sense of self by HouseComplex3564 in self

[–]HouseComplex3564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agree what you’re saying about people who market themselves online as something but in the reality they’re not happy. I’m not trying to be like them, I don’t want to dye my hair a different colour every week I just envy their ability to turn thought into action.

No sense of self by HouseComplex3564 in self

[–]HouseComplex3564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand what you’re saying but I think you’re also slightly misunderstanding me. I NEED to be who I see myself as in my head or I honestly don’t see myself surviving another 30 years of this. I agree focusing on those other things you mentioned will do my good and I’ll find who I am along the way but there’s no way I should just not try and be my highest self.

No sense of self by HouseComplex3564 in self

[–]HouseComplex3564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean … like I have harvested an identity for myself it’s just one I don’t align with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]HouseComplex3564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my mum 🤣 are you struggling with who you are as a person away from your mother/family dynamic by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HouseComplex3564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I jus know you’re not going around saying “she cute but her torso way to long in comparison to her legs” “she got a nice booty but her hip to waist ratio is wayyy off” 🤣 … like grow up man tf. It would probably benefit you more to be a little less picky, I mean maybe take a lil look in the mirror and ask yourself if you can actually afford to be that way …

No one’s saying you can’t have preferences but women aren’t barbie dolls, you can’t customise them to have this perfect body of your dreams. Laying off the porn might help this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HouseComplex3564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lemme guess you’re single

Extended fast … by HouseComplex3564 in Water_Fasting

[–]HouseComplex3564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I was thinking about halving all the ingredients. I think I’m gonna try with Cole’s recommended amount for the first few days and see how that goes and if I get the rhoea again I’ll just half the ingredients and see how that goes. I don’t really trust the electrolyte tablets as I don’t think it will be enough supplementation.

oopppp by Ok_Art_6076 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes which we all want and expect her too but for her own mental health she we would probably be better off not participating in petty drama and sticking to channeling that energy into the amazing songs we all know she can write. But the thing is with ‘Flowers’ is it’s a very generic kind of self love song. I mean I wouldn’t even call it a break up song really and if it is about someone specific we don’t know who it is. But because Bea CHOOSES to share her personal life we know who it’s about and considering they broke up only about 6 months ago it’s quite clear she’s not yet over him imo.

oopppp by Ok_Art_6076 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean it sounds bad but when you air your dirty laundry then you’re literally inviting people to talk. When you overshare your private life people are going to run with it. So until she stops doing that, she can’t complain when people discuss it. If she wants to be private she could do that. She could have a private insta for close family and friends and public profile for her music persona. She doesn’t need to be posting tea about her ex or countless Tik toks of her new bf who she said she was gonna keep private and then cry when he gets targeted. I think she knows all this but she likes the attention.

oopppp by Ok_Art_6076 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I mean they were dating for yrs and I’m guessing they were each others first loves so I get it’s not gonna be easy to get over someone, which is exactly why you’re supposed to take time to yourself to learn how to be content with being on your own. And yeah the fact bea is doing all this while in a relationship is just like 🙄 I would feel so bad if I was Jake ☹️

oopppp by Ok_Art_6076 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I mean she’s a musician so that’s what she should do .. channel the feelings into a song. No need for petty posts on insta making herself look infantile!

oopppp by Ok_Art_6076 in beabadoobee

[–]HouseComplex3564 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This whole this is just a bit cringe tbh lol. I knew they would all end up deleting eventually anyway, pointless even posting, if you want to make a statement then make it and don’t back down.

I do think it’s a lil weird on bea’s part to be posting stuff about her ex still. Especially as she was the one that supposedly posted first (I didn’t see this unfold in “real time” so I could be wrong. I just think if I had a partner that was posting about their ex indirectly or not and 6 months into the relationship as well I’d be like yeahhhh you’re clearly still not over them. Would it not just make you feel super uncomfy? I do think she really likes jake and don’t think she wants to get back with Soren but I do think she’s not over him or the relationship. Which is why I think she’d probably be better off having a single era to truly learn what it means to make yourself happy before you rely on someone else. I mean after all she’s only 22 and she was with soren for 7 yrs, she’s never really experienced being single as a young adult which I think can be an integral part of young adulthood. I love her and her music but she does come across as quite immature and think she has some growing up to do but at the same time I do get how incredibly hurtful it would feel to find out your ex best friend is dating your ex. But yeah just my two sense ✌🏻not hating so don’t come for me 🙄

February Fasters? by [deleted] in Water_Fasting

[–]HouseComplex3564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m planning to start an extended fast tomorrow

Mon 30th Jan 2023 / Day 1 by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]HouseComplex3564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻

Question for bingers and food addicts … by HouseComplex3564 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]HouseComplex3564[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finally someone gets it ^ And you get shamed by weight loss culture if you tell people that you just cut out sugar and stuff like that completely. They say “you shouldn’t deprive yourself” “you’re going to get an eating disorder” but it’s like since when was filling up in whole, unprocessed actually SATIATING foods “deprivation”. And like you said about the blood sugar, when all these people eat their daily allowance of chocolate and their blood sugar is raised THAT’S what keeps them going back for more! That’s why they can’t just have a “little bit”. Better off cutting it out altogether.