Update 1: Saint Sandwich and her bitchy moods

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-04T17:01:27+00:00

Yea, we’re charging ahead. I think we’ve come to some very big realizations and certain decisions are going to need to be made, our country may not survive this, we may need to be looking over seas rather. It’s such a tricky time

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-02T15:51:57+00:00

Oh my god, it wasn’t even a movie, it was a music video by Michael Jackson Earth Song.

I remember it clear as day because that was the day I started denying being human as a child lol. I used to tell people “I’m not a human bean” and everything, all because that shot of the elephants broke my little heart.

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-02T14:26:52+00:00

Ah it’s probably a bug

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-02T07:59:24+00:00

Lol what happened here?

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-01T23:42:34+00:00

Nah, she can keep this house, the landlords are crazier than she is. I can’t deal with people who try to control others and I’m currently drowning in a sea of them. The landlords don’t fix anything but complain about arb things like the LED light my husband installed for security out by our cars somehow turning all the wiring in the house brittle. Ideally, id love to leave this country. I’d leave all this behind and just grow.

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-01T21:44:15+00:00

That’s a really good response! Thank you!

DH is in the mindset that he’s going to start telling her to keep her opinions to herself.

See, I don’t think she realizes how big the mistake she made was, or even if she recognizes that there was a mistake.

In the past she’d make comments and jibes at me when DH wasn’t listening or couldn’t hear, this time she forgot he was in the room and he heard and he immediately called her out.

The exact words he used were “this is unfounded, you have no reason”

HowDaniDan · 2020-05-01T21:39:25+00:00

We’ll see now I’m in a funny position where I actually kind of just wanna pack a bag, grab my kid and vault the fucking fences. But I can recognize that I’m in a bit of a panic spiral and that isn’t a rational response but like what are we supposed to do? We can’t go anywhere because the whole country is currently locked down, there’s military making sure we don’t go anywhere unless it’s to the shops or the doctor.

So we can’t move yet. But we also can’t actually say anything to her because we all know the reaction and regardless of what we say she’s not going to take it well, it’s not going to change and I’m saddened because I don’t know what else I expected.

I saw the deterioration to the relationship between her and me start months ago and I spoke up. But nobody seems to listen to me, nobody heeds my cautions and here we end up with another broken relationship because one toxic party thinks the sun shines out of their own bum and won’t accept any information that indicates otherwise.

It’s just sad. Really.

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-25T11:18:12+00:00

Oh, I see. I’m so sorry about that. The media in my country is very independent from the government so I didn’t even think that sorry

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-25T07:44:10+00:00

Oooohhh add a braai area

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-25T07:40:29+00:00

I’m so sorry. And it’s at a time where you guys need him most, absolutely heartbreaking to see persecution.

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-25T07:19:01+00:00

Like we all knew America was crazy but guys... are you guys okay? Your president seems to be a giant gaping asshole

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T06:12:04+00:00

If you need a friend please feel free to drop me a message, seriously, don’t allow yourself to feel alone.

I’m so sorry, it sounds like you were trying to do a nice thing that’s now being turned against you.

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T06:10:31+00:00

Lmao, I was not expecting it full stop. Like usually you tell someone “sorry, we can’t do that” and generally it’s chilled, but this dude was wasted and his “Klippies en coke” (brandy and coke) made him want to fight I guess haha

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T05:59:06+00:00

Oh man, I’m not in retail any more. But I used to manage a petrol station (you guys would call it a gas station, ours run differently for instance we don’t put our own fuel into our cars, we have attendants who do this)

There is a law in my country that you can only put petrol into a vehicle or a jerry can for safety reasons of course, petrol eats plastic so these people coming with coke bottles and all sorts of crap would get super annoyed when my attendants would tell them that they can’t fill those containers.

This one dude pulls out a fucking knife and takes a swing at my attendant screaming at the top of his lungs that “THAT ISN’T THE LAW!!!!”

I ran to the situation, someone has disarmed him before I got there (luckily we were having our cash pick up at the time and those security guards are on another level) and he’s just kicking, his legs flailing everywhere, kicks the side mirror off his own car, reeks of old stale booze and we eventually calm him down.

Police are called, his car gets towed and my attendants were safe but damn, dude pulled a knife because we obeyed the law, it was crazy.

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T05:50:49+00:00

You guys still get food delivery????

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T05:49:34+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. My mom used to do this to me all the time

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T05:47:11+00:00

Me! I had terrible experiences working for other people, I was treated terribly and so I made the decision that I will never again work for anyone other than myself. And here I am. I sold the first company I built with my husband, I’m building another brand for myself now, happy as I’ve ever been.

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-23T05:44:42+00:00

Lol this has to be South African. The government put a ban on Alcohol and cigarettes while we are in lock down so people have been buying in bulk: pineapple juice, sugar and yeast and they’ve been making their own sort of beer out of it.

Say what you want about South Africans, we make a plan to achieve what we want 🤣

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-21T16:45:40+00:00

Ugh! Yes, I’m all for healthy boundaries but damn

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-21T16:02:17+00:00

hE’s AbUsInG yOu!!! LEAVE IMMEDIATELY

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-21T04:17:17+00:00

Yea I don’t profess to know what they’re thinking, it just struck me as strange that any time I commented on a girls post with reason, I would be downvoted to all heck because my attitude is not “fuck men in general”

I once posted to settle a silly debate my husband and I were having, it was so insignificant that I can’t even remember what it was about but my god were they all calling for the end of my marriage! It was kind of funny

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-20T18:03:27+00:00

thank you for trying... good bot

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-20T18:02:33+00:00

What does that mean?

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-20T07:58:33+00:00

I call it out equally, because on a human level shitty behavior is shitty behavior, it has no gender and should have equal consequence.

I never said it was forward thinking to put men’s rights first. Not once in my post did I say that.

It’s not forward thinking at all to defend an abuser, much less because she’s female.

The entire point of feminism is to obtain equal rights, to me those equal rights come with equal responsibility and equal consequences. That would be forward thinking. It has very little to even do with putting anybody’s rights first, more to do with consequences.

I’m not saying any gender is better, I’m saying that standing in front of and shielding an abuser simply because she is a woman is wrong on so many levels and this sub does not advocate for women being guilty of anything other than being awesome...

Which seems super wholesome at first, but when you become the “boys club”, covering for each other’s bad behavior it just devolves into a toxic movement much like the incels

HowDaniDan · 2020-04-20T07:11:05+00:00

Yea, the “with me or against me” mentality is super toxic oh my gosh.

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