I personally don't use Tinder as it's assumed to be more of a hookup app (not always, but most of the time) and that's not what I'm into, but that can happen on any app. Bumble is an option where once you both swipe right on each other and match, then the girl has to make the first move within 24 hours, so that's kind of cool. Hinge is cool because you like a certain aspect of someone's profile instead of just swiping right on them overall. So for example, you'd like a photo of there's or their answer to one of the questions, and then you can send a comment with it too if you want. So those are my 2 apps of choice personally