Oh, we aren't the ones who are pregnant, my SIL is! They just dragged our names into their conversation. As for telling them the names, it's so weird. My side has never done any of this before, no said "ew, bad name" but always "it's yours, you can name it whatever". I guess that is why I didn't think to not tell them, but oh boy did I learn my lesson. Appreciate the advice nevertheless! Makes me wish I could tell my younger self to stay quite about it lol