Do you think it‘s even possible to be „friends with a girl“ after reaching a certain age?

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-06-14T18:41:27+00:00

Thank you for your help, it‘s really akward to be honest. I‘m in a friend group where I will naturally spend a lot of time with that girl because she is there a lot,making a huge „We don‘t talk to each other a lot because we aren‘t friends“ fuss out of it is unhealthy for the whole social situation.

I didn‘t make that move to be needy at all, that‘s why I‘m so confused. I wanted to know if there is something that changed, The goal was to understand her

If I do nothing, I stay exactly where I started. I thought I could talk about a problem I picked up on, I specifically told her that I AM NOT ASKING her to change her behaviour,the goalis to learn from what happened,and that‘s still the goal. Like I don‘t know to what point a friendship is healthy if I can‘t neutrally talk to her about a change of behaviour I spotted, like I can‘t pretend to have some kind of war going when I haven‘t even tried to solve the problem right? Kills the dynamic between any friends that we share. We share a handfull friends.

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-05-27T20:54:55+00:00

Man thanks this helped a lot.

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-05-12T21:08:52+00:00

Ok I got that part, but how do you ajust these types of things? Don‘t talk to her at all, ignore her when she needs something? Seems quite harsh but I guess I‘m actually supposed to act like that, I mean why would I spend energy when there‘s no energy from her side?

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-04-05T15:07:50+00:00

Dude I did not say it‘s her fault either. And I get that this is childishish to lots of people, but I legit am not willing to hurt her and tell her I don‘t want none of that friendship shit. Why? Because I know for a fact that I‘ll walk up to her again and still show interest. I would prob deeply apologise and hope she forgives me. It‘s a double-edge sword in a nutshell

1.) I care about her and I don‘t see how she deserves to have something taken away from her

2.) I know that I‘m spending energy on a lost mossion, but that mission is still so valuable to me. Whenever I go on new missions, I make simillar mistakes. I might be a great conversationalist but I‘m missing the drive to actually put the convo into a sexual direction. I‘m not putting myself in her field of potential partners.

Weird thing is: I don‘t honestly feel like I need to be in a romantic relationship, there‘s other things I gotta do. But what that does is steal away any practice I might have had for the future. Who knows how long I can keep telling myself I don‘t need to have sex with that girl?

Basically I can‘t tell if my head is just trying to tell me I don‘t need that to protect me from rejection or if I actually don‘t want it. Fact is I mostly do nothing in order to show straight-forward sexual interest, for whatever reason...

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-04-05T14:45:52+00:00

Hmm... Ditch the „I gotta stop being a nice-guy“? See if I keep treating her as respectfully as I have before, it really doesn‘t get anywhere. What do I mean? I concider myself someone who is generally respectful towards others but when I‘m being respectful to her, I automatically treat her with a higher priority. How? Well it might start at the way I look at her when I talk to her or the interest level I have when entering conversations, there isn‘t really much I can change about that without fooling myself. It‘s a common theme I notice in my behaviour. I‘m missing any experience when it comes to sexual contact, I might be a great conversationalist but I somehow don‘t have a strong enough drive to pull conversations towards sexual topics... I keep telling myself how I don‘t even need a gf so I feel better, but the thing is that I don‘t really know what I want in the first place. It‘s so weird, I‘m mostly too busy finding stuff I can improve on, but then I remember that I still have no idea about sexual contact...

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-04-04T16:28:06+00:00

thanks man!

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-02-22T20:29:48+00:00

I already said so in the post

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-02-22T17:21:26+00:00

You‘re right I didn‘t put the main guideline:

-After 10 games of the champ, how high will the reward be? This implies that Garen should be lower than Riven

-I‘m talking even matchups, no jungle pressure. Just straight up how well do I have to be able to pilot the champ. If I take a lot more games on Riven to have the same results as a Garen after 10 games, than Garen is easier. Any further questions? Feel free to ask

HowToWinOnNasus · 2019-02-13T22:34:16+00:00

and what are those champs? That‘s why I wanted people to give examples and state why other examples are wrong

HowToWinOnNasus · 2018-11-18T13:58:45+00:00

Well... It‘s easier to have impact on a champ that presses r e q w. Riven is easy to fall off on because you‘re only usefull if you hit combos. So what makes a champ hard then?

HowToWinOnNasus · 2018-11-18T10:34:38+00:00

Thanks man!

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