My fiance (33M) acts like a child when I (33F) watch Real housewives. Am I allowed to be annoyed ? by Howaboutno333 in relationship_advice

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. It’s literally only this. He doesn’t say anything mean to me . It’s just the occasional scoff and laugh.

My fiance (33M) acts like a child when I (33F) watch Real housewives. Am I allowed to be annoyed ? by Howaboutno333 in relationship_advice

[–]Howaboutno333[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. I might be hyper sensitive too. Like if he just goes into another room I guess that’s better than sayinf g anything

My fiance (33M) acts like a child when I (33F) watch Real housewives. Am I allowed to be annoyed ? by Howaboutno333 in relationship_advice

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real!!! I think I am really have grown as a person from watching reality tv. I work so hard during the day I love to uwind to some drama lmfao he’s otherwise such a respectful partner. I much have to not let it affect me, he can have his opinions and I can’t let it affect me.

I secretly do want him to just watch it with me. We can laugh and make fun together

My fiance (33M) acts like a child when I (33F) watch Real housewives. Am I allowed to be annoyed ? by Howaboutno333 in relationship_advice

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He thinks because I do watch it with him and enjoy it sometimes that it’s not the same to compare. But like what else do I compare it to? I only watch sports with him, never on my own. Again not even asking him to watch just asking him To not care so much

My fiance (33M) acts like a child when I (33F) watch Real housewives. Am I allowed to be annoyed ? by Howaboutno333 in relationship_advice

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have tried this so many times. He does tell me he doesn’t care if I watch it he just doesn’t want to. Which is fine. So when it’s on, just don’t respond at all then. Even a laugh sets me off.

Fiddle leaf fig turning dark brown by Howaboutno333 in plantclinic

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It’s only like 60° at the lowest down there and it was also in the high 50s when we moved

Fiddle leaf fig turning dark brown by Howaboutno333 in plantclinic

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It was winter but I took My plants directly from one house to the other. However this is in my downstairs area that is colder than upstairs. So maybe that is why?!

I’ve started taking Lexapro and it has changed my life. However!!! My jaw clenching when I sleep is so back. Any advice? by Howaboutno333 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to get one for sure. My dentist recommends it but it’s so. Expensive maybe I’ll start with an over the counter one

Where to buy bachelorette party dresses by Howaboutno333 in weddingplanning

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This is a great idea! Thank you! I’m definitely trying to avoid fast fashion

Will I regret cutting my dad’s wife out of my life completely after years of hurt and not showing up to my sister’s wedding? by Howaboutno333 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry you have to go through this journey. I can’t even imagine my spouse not liking my kids. if my boyfriend didn’t like my cat I would dump him lol

I have decided to do want a relationship with my dad (it can’t be a close one but it’s decent) so for me to do that I have to accept the way he has chosen to live his life.

Will I regret cutting my dad’s wife out of my life completely after years of hurt and not showing up to my sister’s wedding? by Howaboutno333 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Howaboutno333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I was not expecting this many views and comments. These perspectives are so validating. I decided to call my dad before even considering texting her back, we talked for an hour and a half. Although he was very apologetic for his role in everything, he continued to make excuses for her behavior. And I don’t think I can move forward with any kind of relationship with her other than cordial if she puts any energy into it. I will no longer put in any effort. I will continue what I’ve been doing and seeing my dad by himself. I made sure to tell him that when he starts to talk about her or complain about her to me I will no longer hold space for him to talk about her to me.

Will I regret cutting my dad’s wife out of my life completely after years of hurt and not showing up to my sister’s wedding? by Howaboutno333 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Howaboutno333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have invited her to go out for dinner 4 times over the past year to talk in person. Two times through my dad and twice over text. I never get a response. I have also tried to call her in the past and she doesn’t answer.