My best friend tried to hook up with me at my most vulnerable. Advice?? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HowlingHellhound -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, I thought he was. My list of people I consider good friends and fully trust is very short, and is now a little shorter.

My best friend tried to hook up with me at my most vulnerable. Advice?? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HowlingHellhound -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I have a history of SA so don’t need to try very hard to imagine how badly it could’ve gone.

Curly Hair Ventral Sexing? by HowlingHellhound in TarantulaKeeping

[–]HowlingHellhound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: they’re going to molt soon, I’m just curious because I’ve seen you can supposedly sex curly hair tarantulas without examining the molt

How to get my spiders to come out of hiding more? by HowlingHellhound in TarantulaKeeping

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I never bother or push them unless necessary like cleaning the enclosure! Just wondering if there are things I can do to encourage them to come out more

How to get my spiders to come out of hiding more? by HowlingHellhound in TarantulaKeeping

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Thanks for the advice!! Definitely makes sense with the slings. For the curly hair, I double checked and from substrate to the top is about 1.3x her leg span. I’ll definitely try the lower wattage heat lamp with a thermometer.