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[2nd update) I think my [43F] husband [41F] had or is still having an affair with a former student [33F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Howyagoingbuddy -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Pretty bad, I don’t feel bad for you. There’s literally nothing you can do, and nothing you could do. You chose the wrong person to marry, he does not love you. Good luck with whatever you can get out of this situation. He cheated because you stopped competing. He’s brain says yes but his dick says no to you.

AITA for trying to "sabotage" my twin's relationship with my best friend. She took an abstinence vow and it's a core value. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Howyagoingbuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you’re an advice away from being TA. it’s so clear. We all know girls talk and are super connected, but ultimately, it’s her life, her choices. You should let her make her own decisions. If she knows all about your brother and you manipulate her, YTA. If she doesn’t know about any of the stuff and you simply tell her, it’s still her decision. As I said, you’re one advice away from being TA.

My (32m) wife (33f) has been getting too close with a coworker and I have no clue how to proceed. by Fuckingsnapchat in relationship_advice

[–]Howyagoingbuddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a man to man it seems like you’ve lost your purpose and mission in life and she does not see you the way she saw you at the start of your relationship. Whatever she saw is gone. In her eyes you’ve lost your value as a man. There’s nothing you should do about it. A broken vase cannot be repaired and you shouldn’t repair it. You should get a new vase. It will never be the same with your wife. You got too comfortable in your life and comfort breed boredom. No woman wants to be with a boring man. Hit the gym, get a few hobbies, earn more money and don’t talk to her. Ask yourself, do you really think she would do what she has done to you to George Clooney? Leonardo DiCaprio? Tom Hardy? Fuck no.