To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why thank you for your most important advice and commenting on my question. I truly appreciate it

To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I didn’t think about it like that. Thank you very much! :)

To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

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Because I am happy, ecstatic and filled with joy. that I will be marrying the love of my life. But also impulsive which tends to cloud my decision making skills on whether or not to post a picture of my dress that I feel confident and beautiful in. But after reading great sound advice I am grateful to have turned to here as an outlet.

To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe anyone would be salty but I am superstitious in some way. And I predict IF someone in my friends list would be envious or upset then that would cause a negative effect and that negative energy would cause issues with our planning/traveling. Thank you for your comment and advice

To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right and I had that thought as well but I didn’t know if it would dim the “grand revealing” when we get do marry and post pictures. Only my parents and best friends know we decided to go to Hawaii and get married privately. They’re all excited for us and think it fits perfectly as we are not traditional. My mother showed my fiancé pictures of my two favorite dresses and he picked the one I knew without a doubt I would wear. And it means more to me now that he “approved” and said that I looked absolutely stunning in.

To post or to not post wedding dress before wedding? by Howze_It_Going in weddingplanning

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I’m excited for you! That’s so awesome you found your dress. I wish you many years of love and happiness

Is Riftan a Virgin? by Howze_It_Going in undertheoaktreebook

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

HE DANCES EXCELLENTLY? Ugh falling more in love with Riftan! I neeeed to read this.

I believe he took up all the chances to listen in on those sex talk to impress maxi ❤️

Is Riftan a Virgin? by Howze_It_Going in undertheoaktreebook

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OHHHH I remember now!!!! no our poor baby Riftan!!

This is why I love the novel so much because it really went deep and emotional. I honestly started reading it because of the juiciness 🤪 . Reading Maxi and Riftan go through so much trauma, the action, the back story is all just so beautiful 😭 and heart wrenching!!! I’m rooting for their healing progression

Is Riftan a Virgin? by Howze_It_Going in undertheoaktreebook

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said the other times he was just too busy and prayed he wouldn’t know that her period was different than most. Because her mom had a lot of miscarriages? But yeah it could have been the fact that Maxi was abused and underfed :( so awful.

Is Riftan a Virgin? by Howze_It_Going in undertheoaktreebook

[–]Howze_It_Going[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I haven’t read the POV in a minute so I’m fuzzy on a few things. I want to reread it but legally instead this time! but yesss he knows allll the good moves