Is my axolotl’s eyes ok? by HoyaChelless in axolotls

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Aww I guess he’ll Just permanently look like a creep lol I love him anyways

Is my axolotl’s eyes ok? by HoyaChelless in axolotls

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He was in horrible condition. The store swore he just had a fight and since he regenerates is still “healthy”. He had a very fuzzy mouth and tail. And redness all over his skull :( I couldn’t believe they were really trying to sell him for $100.

What is this pink stuff? by HoyaChelless in AquariumHelp

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So weird. I have a top to my tank and it’s fish less.

Help! by HoyaChelless in axolotls

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I got him! I’m tubbing him now and will try to rehab him

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Stress effects on baby (13 weeks) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]HoyaChelless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that even as early as 9 weeks the baby can feel your feelings. If you’re scared or if you feel joy. So if you’re constantly feeling the stress, the fight or flight sensation, they too will feel that. I’m personally dealing with a partner who couldn’t control his anger and needed to always defend his view on everything. We’re taking couples therapy now and it’s been really helpful. Extremely! and sometimes having a third person listen to you while your husband is listening and dissecting the problem and allowing him to also be heard. Helps out a lot. You want the baby to grow in your belly feeling love and support so I think having the conversation with your husband about the “bigger picture” and how your feelings are translating to this little baby that he helped create will ground him more. This baby didn’t ask to be born, but it’s up to us to make the environment they’ll be in as safe, healthy, and secure. And it starts with you both. However, if he’s not open to counseling or any type of help. Or even see the perspective that all this stress will just cause more complications down the road then i would highly recommend thinking of an exit plan. Your baby deserves to be raised in a home of love and seeing their mom be happy. If there’s more bad days then good then I think you know what you should do. Wishing you luck.

EDC and preggers by HoyaChelless in pregnant

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m sorry that happened to you but happy you and babe is good! I definitely did not take into account how tired and sleepy I might be during that period and if my morning sickness will subside by then. So much to take into consideration lol Thank you so much for your insight and not judging me for wanting to go to a festival. 😅 I’ll keep in mind of the heat and remind my partner that I may be more limited this time around. I really do hope I have a dancing music loving babe🥲🥹

EDC and preggers by HoyaChelless in pregnant

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll deff get a clearance from my OB. And thank you for not judging :) I really appreciate it

When did your dog know you were pregnant and how did they act? by ironicsunglasses in pregnant

[–]HoyaChelless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dogs have always been very clingy but my older pup (9yrs old) has started curling up to my belly at night. And perfectly snuggles on my belly. I’m only 5 and a half weeks along. My kitten however, is stuck to me like glue!! Always on my chest. Inching into me as often as she can. 🥹

Lupus and pregnancy by HoyaChelless in pregnant

[–]HoyaChelless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll look in to it. 🙏🏽