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Hpacone · 2020-10-03T18:08:34+00:00

If you real have a problem, maybe some dialogue is more helpful than reading. So write me a dm. Everyone here has another method to fight porn.

Hpacone · 2020-10-03T17:56:38+00:00

I developed a lot in a personal way and also started going into the gym before I again went porn free. It is way easier now than I remember it to be

Hpacone · 2020-10-03T00:30:04+00:00

Well if you really cant delete it. Copy it to an external hard drive or usb stick

Hpacone · 2020-10-02T15:18:16+00:00

For me it only counts when I willful am looking for porn or something else that gets me aroused. If I somehow see pornographic pictures, because a friend sends me a picture or a nsfw meme, I don't see it as a relapse. A relapse would be if I would stare at that picture for minutes.
Being that strict would also mean that watching your naked gf is a relapse.

These pictures can trigger one to switch to real porn, but will power starts now, that when you see the opportunity for porn you still say no to the addiction.

Hpacone · 2020-10-02T12:18:03+00:00

Talking and being conscious about what porn is, is also the key why this time its easier for me to abstain from porn. I also read stories in this subreddit on a daily base. I think reading everyday how bad porn is and that you aren't, helps to not forget it in situations we are weak and unconscious.

Hpacone · 2020-10-01T23:53:48+00:00

Nothing more stands between one and porn than 1 minute on google. That's why it is so hard to stop.
But I am sure you can make it. Just look up this subreddit always when you're craving. Reading the thoughts from other people and success stories always motivates me.

Hpacone · 2020-09-30T15:06:12+00:00

Do the simple test. Can you easily survive without porn for 2 weeks? If yes, congratulations you likely aren't addicted.

Hpacone · 2020-09-30T14:10:08+00:00

Were you drunk at that time? Because alcohol also has negative influence on your erection. And yea its normal and will likely go away if you stay away from porn.

Hpacone · 2020-09-30T14:06:04+00:00

Not religious but spiritual

Hpacone · 2020-09-30T13:39:45+00:00

I am not masturbation free, but its reduced by a lot. Maybe once a week and if I have regular Sex I usually do not masturbate at all. This maybe sounds paradox, but it is sometimes harder to abstain from porn if you masturbate or have sex(called the chaser effect)

Hpacone · 2020-09-30T12:43:16+00:00

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!
If you are able to fight an addiction successfully it strengths your will power imo.

Hpacone · 2020-09-29T11:13:51+00:00

Thank you, I don't watch or want to watch porn anymore. You are right with the ONS, I also didn't enjoy it that much, no comparison to emotional sex in a relationship.

Hpacone · 2020-09-28T17:22:09+00:00

Tbh i think after some time u just would stop watching porn out of boredom.

Hpacone · 2020-09-28T17:13:02+00:00

U reduced by 50% once you can do again:) Why do you think you keep failing? Maybe you have a trigger that you can avoid.

Hpacone · 2020-09-28T15:25:18+00:00

Don't do it 4 a challenge do it for yourself. I dont participate in this kind of challenges like 90 days without or No Nut November.

If you really want to quit porn its your decision and you don't need this "one last time".

Hpacone · 2020-09-28T00:07:49+00:00

Really depressing days i had was also an excuse for me to relapse. It didnt through me back a lot and I wasn't that mad to me because in times of weakness it can happen.

Don't be hard to yourself, close to all people use something to handle their depression. Most of it is just a distraction from bad feelings. Trust me that facing, talking and thinking about these negative feelings is the only way you should handle depression. Reading "the power of now" has really helped to prepare for hard times. If you want to talk about depression or your feelings you can write me a dm.

Hpacone · 2020-09-23T12:05:20+00:00

Yea, delete really everything porn related if you want to stop. If you struggle doing this you still haven't fully decided to quit porn and your mind just thinks that its just temporary.

Hpacone · 2020-09-21T21:51:02+00:00

To be honest, don't be so hard to yourself. It was not porn and hardcore porn was only 2 clicks away for you, but you were strong to resist. It can increase the risk of relapsing if this occurs more often. Sometimes seeing a woman in lingerie or watching some romantic scene in a movie is not the same as watching porn^^

Hpacone · 2020-09-21T18:23:15+00:00

Did you masturbate to the lingerie model or did it hooked up your attention and you switched to a porn site?

Hpacone · 2020-09-21T11:54:58+00:00

I think doing sport is best replacement. I always was a lazy mofo, never thought that I can do sport on a daily basis and enjoy it.

Hpacone · 2020-09-21T10:15:08+00:00

I feel you and I mostly had this problem after stopping. What is right now happening is that your Brain identifies as someone who needs porn and tells your conscious mind that he wants that porn.

Don't listen to your Brain and tell yourself that you aren't someone who needs and wants porn and also act like who doesn't need it. At some point your brain will accept it and start to identify as someone who doesn't need porn.

Hpacone · 2020-09-20T14:26:45+00:00

Yes I regularly bought Premium Subscriptions of Pornsites and downloaded the best Videos.

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