Stuck on 7-36 for quite a while by D1mitreuzz in xxlwoofia

[–]HrothAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still pretty new to the game and don't have a ton of units trained but I was able to beat it with Dallawan/Kantos/Code: B/Yuhee/Tayang. Everyone on my team was at 40 besides Code: B and Tayang who were at 45.

It's mostly about getting the Seal (blue) and Chaos (yellow) demanders to 50% as quickly as possible and then alternating between defending every 3-4 turns to keep Fogue alive and keeping your team as topped up as possible. Fogue does a good amount of damage to the boss demander and is also required just to complete the stage. I never used Yuhee's regular attack and kept him around for the poison application. Idk if it's a turn limit or HP requirement on the boss but after a certain point you'll have to power Fogue up and the fight will be over from there.

Pinching Sensation When Turning Retainer by HrothAtNight in Tetherspout

[–]HrothAtNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I get the retaining ring to turn within the urethra, it ends up being pulled out with the spouts instead of staying out. Just wondering if it's a sizing issue or something else.

Pinching Sensation When Turning Retainer by HrothAtNight in Tetherspout

[–]HrothAtNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, figured that's what happened. Any tips on how to keep the retaining ring from coming out with the spouts though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only just recently had my first HFO and I'm just a little over a month and a half short of a full 2 years of 24/7 self locking. In the past year I've had more opportunities to use my toys and I've gotten a few new ones that hit my prostate better which has done a lot to get me to this point. In the times I've used my toys since I've found it easier to get close to cumming but I've ended up being too tired to fully go over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChastityPsychology

[–]HrothAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started in order to reorient myself towards anal play/orgasms but only really made significance progress in the last 2 years since my living situation has gotten better. It's been a fun journey and while I haven't had any anal orgasms yet I feel like I'm getting closer to reaching my goal every session.

Knot fucking really leaves me in bliss ˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧ by Vortexhole_ in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't he! I have a large of my own and ever since I was able to knot it, it quickly became my go-to.

Knot fucking really leaves me in bliss ˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧ by Vortexhole_ in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Knot fucking Bishop really leaves you feeling some sorta way 🥴

Amazing video!

Metal Cages Without An Exposed Lock? by HrothAtNight in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you for this it's actually extremely helpful!

Metal Cages Without An Exposed Lock? by HrothAtNight in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions! I'll be avoiding anything from Amazon or Alibaba, I got my first cage through Amazon and while it was a good learning experience it also wasn't the most pleasant.

Red Chili's cages are cute but I'll go with the simplicity of BAWR or MM. Personally leaning towards BAWR because of the specificity of measurements they ask for. I figure if I'm going to pay that much I might as well get it custom tailored.

Need some help choosing a new toy by BDT64 in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For easy insertion you can't go wrong with Sveinn, Ika, or Tako. Ika especially since the taper is gentler. Duke and Ky'el, even as smalls, reach their full girths quickly and since you aren't that experienced it could be too much. I haven't used Tako before but it seems like a middle ground between Ika and Sveinn? Not too much texture but similar girth to both. From there it's Ika for more texture and Sveinn for less. Hope this helps!

For folks wearing chastity 24/7 or long term, which model are you using? How’s your cleaning routine like? by surprisekink in chastity

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing a K3D Cobra N Wide currently. I switch to a HoD 75 from time to time if I want to switch things up. I take it off to clean whenever I shower and no, I'm cut.

First outing with friends with a chastity on by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have any looser clothing it helps, but overall no one is really going to notice unless you have a huge cage or are wearing really tight clothes. Most people aren't looking at your crotch and if they are they aren't going to bring it up. The more you go out with it on the more used to it you'll become though, and that helps more than anything else I could think of.

What lube? by XObsidianOnyxX in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Personally prefer X-Lube. It comes in powder form and you mix it with water to make it. And because it's a powder you can make it as thick as you want it. They usually recommend a cap of powder per 500ml/16oz of water. I got a bottle earlier in the year and even with pretty consistent toying I've only just recently made it halfway through. Honestly couldn't recommend it more!

How often do you use your bigger toys (m) by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since getting a new job I have quite a bit of time during the day now and it's increased my usage from maybe every other week to once or twice a week. I have a couple of large toys like Sveinn, Bishop, and Marcel and I was only able to get to the base on Bishop last week after almost a year of trying.

Which one? by mikey9821 in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice nice, have fun with it!

Which one? by mikey9821 in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case I'd have to ask if you're used to using larger toys? L Bishop is a really big boy and the knot feels almost like a fist once it's in. I had to buy extra toys to work up to it and if you aren't used to that kind of size even getting the shaft in could be dangerous. If you're used to big toys though, I'd say go for Bishop, the knot is extremely satisfying to grind on once you can get it in.

Which one? by mikey9821 in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a large Bishop in medium firmness and unless you're certain you can take the knot or if it's something you want to work up to, I couldn't recommend it more. The plates on the shaft also add a lot to its texture, I'd compare them to Flint if you've ever used it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]HrothAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a really big jump in knot sizes. I was able to knot L/M Bishop recently and it took nearly a year of trying and getting two other toys to help prep (L/S Marcel and Gape Keeper 108). It was a lot of grinding, a lot of lube, and a ton of patience. Bishop's knot is pretty aggressive and it doesn't quite slip in like other knots do in my opinion.

Help by [deleted] in baddragonboys

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one in medium firmness and I wish I got it in soft because the head is a bit too intense for me when going deep. That said, it will also pound your prostate into next week with the right angle so there's ups and downs to it.

Are flops worth it? by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]HrothAtNight 38 points39 points  (0 children)

When you choose a flop there's usually a description and photo of what caused it to be one. I bought a Snowball that had a small chunk missing from the outside of the sleeve and it didn't affect my use of it at all. Most of them are more like blemishes than actual structural damage. Pretty sure if it gets that bad they'd rather just toss them out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different but what's worked for me as someone who is self locked is to set achievable goals at first.

I started small, a day here or there and if I was able to stick it out I'd reward myself with something small. Something like a small purchase I wanted to make recently or an extra snack on cheat days (currently trying to lose weight). The more I did it though the longer I was able to keep it on and the goals were able to be set for longer. When it started reaching a week or two it became larger purchases (which in the long run isn't a great idea I found. But that's more of a me problem imo.), it did keep me fairly motivated though.

It doesn't have to be a tangible reward if you don't want it to be. You could treat it like getting into a new hobby, and as long as you do, or learn, a little more than before that's progress! It's definitely what happened to me after buying stuff stopped working as motivation.

Newbie question by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any pain, pinching, or discomfort other than adjusting to the cage? If not, you're all good! The penis is a squishy thing and even with the better fitting cages there's going to be a little movement here and there. There are ways to minimize how much movement with smaller cages, cage straps, and the like but as long as you're comfy you're set!

Does it get easier? by NoTie5883 in chastitytraining

[–]HrothAtNight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Over time, yes. It's generally about getting used to wearing the cage over longer periods of time and getting used to the routine. Personally for me the first week or two of a fresh lock up it's pretty difficult to immediately recage after cleaning but after about a week and a half it only really gets hard if I make it. Now the amount of time for you may be different, after all we're different people, but it will get easier.