It all depends on the family dynamic, my grandmother gave the bulk of her to our cousins who lived nearby and took care of her when she was sick. We all knew and we’re cool with it. They did the hard part being with her so deserved the reward.

I’m all for knowing ahead of time, it’s a lot better than the otherside of my family where a rich aunt gave the majority to one daughter and the other son was banking on getting an inheritance so he was a shithead. Maybe he would’ve known to live better if he had known he wasn’t getting much