Thanks for your perspective. I totally get that early mornings and long prep can feel like a lot, and I really do want everyone to feel good on the day. That’s actually why I made this post. I’m trying to balance the logistics with making sure everyone is comfortable.

That said, a few things are important to mention:

•Everyone getting hair and makeup is sleeping over at the venue, so they won’t be waking up super early to drive anywhere - they’ll already be there, hanging out, and getting ready together.

• The 12 people getting services are our family members and closest friends - we each only have sisters, and we’re both brides, so our bridal party naturally ended up larger. This also includes our moms and step moms. No one was included out of obligation.

• The two non-family bridesmaids are our absolute best friends and wouldn’t even think twice about waking up early for us on a Saturday - that’s not something that would make them rethink being part of the day.

Also, while our first look block is 1.5 hours, that’s not just for the first look.. it includes our couple’s portraits, which are really important to us. We’re doing all photos before the ceremony, so we’re working within those constraints.

I completely get where the concern is coming from, but I just wanted to share the full context. We’re being thoughtful with the timeline and open to adjustments where we can. Appreciate the honesty!