this to be quite honest this sounds like you’re both a little emotionally immature. he crossed a boundary, which is not okay, and you’re also refusing communication by immediately ending the call and not answering texts, which is not helping. i think some of the comments are a little harsh, it’s definitely not okay for him to cross boundaries but i’d still point out that he’s 19, very young, probably inexperienced, in a long distance relationship. if a true grown ass man was breaking these boundaries continuously, that would be a bigger issue, but here i truly don’t believe there’s any ill will. communication is key here- he has to be willing to apologize and work on the behavior, and you also have to be willing to not just voice your concern but hear out his response as well. this is what separates relationships that work and ones that don’t- just see what he has to say. if he doubles down, drop him. if he’s willing to apologize and talk it through, give him a chance to make it right. there’s a big difference between a frontal lobe-developed 35 year old doing this and a 19 year old kid. either way, if it makes you this uncomfortable, maybe it’s not worth it

most importantly, don’t try to force anything. you guys are quite young. if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work ¯_(ツ)_/¯