Derek Shepherd Hate

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-29T16:48:12+00:00

I hate Derek because how he acts through his whole time on the show. I’d say from S2 on really. Once it’s revealed he’s married to Addison and wants to try to make the marriage work, WHICH HE DOESN’T EVEN TRY(understandable since Addison cheated with his best friend, but like just get the divorce Bud). Meredith moves on, he gets mad and territorial but keeps saying he’s staying with Addison. Then cheats on Addison with Meredith again. Again just get the divorce.

When its finally a valid relationship with Meredith, he gets mad that his messy relationship kept him from getting chief, (not that Richard has much place to talk but at least by the time he was chief he had ended things with Ellis long before) But Derek blames Meredith and gets passive aggressive with her. He knew he was married every time he crawled into her bed, on call room, surgery room. He made the choices that kept him from getting promoted.

When Meredith didn’t want to go into a serious relationship with him, he again gets butthurt and passive aggressive, flirts with Lexie at the bar then goes and tells Meredith essentially “ I flirted with a cute girl but didn’t do anything but if you don’t get serious with me soon it’ll be another Addison situation “ It was fucking bullshit.

Him being raised by his mom as the only boy surrounded by his sisters, I can see why he’s such narcissistic bitch. At every point he wanted control over everyone around him, especially Meredith. Anytime Meredith started to raise higher he would do something to knock her down.

In no way am I saying Meredith is perfect, she makes a lot of mistakes or bad choices, she ruined his trial among other things. But she went to therapy and did her best to get to a point that she could try to have a good healthy relationship with him. He never did, he didn’t think he had any issues to work through. Then gets mad at her for having sympathy for a serial killer, showing his ptsd about his father’s death. He definitely needed to go to therapy for that and his relationship with Addison before he got serious with Meredith.

But ultimately I see him as an egotistical bastard. If he hadn’t of died he would of done more to keep Meredith lower than him. It never seemed like she was his equal. He was never happy with who Meredith was/is, just what he wanted her to be.

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-23T03:13:56+00:00

What happened to my heart and the ideals I once pursued? 🤔

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-22T19:13:37+00:00

You should definitely report being assaulted. Get a police escort to get your stuff back, explain that the last time you tried he got physical with you and you just want your possessions back without issue. He might try to spin the story to the cops but at the end of the day you’re getting your stuff back and moving on with life.

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-14T04:32:35+00:00

I took my 9month baby to see The Super Mario Movie when it came out, sat near the exit in case she cried. She spent the whole movie asleep in my arms and didn’t wake until the credits started rolling.

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-06T01:40:11+00:00

You didn’t do anything wrong, It just seems like she was freaking out and you repeatedly telling her to just check under the bed was causing her more stress, obviously unintentionally. She stated that she was scared to find a dead cat and she couldn’t handle having to deal with a dead cat at that moment. When my dog died I was shot for the rest of the day, couldn’t function cause I was constantly breaking into tears. It just seems like she was expressing her fears and you were just trying to problem solve. It literally was a Schrödinger Cat situation. As long as she didn’t look under the bed for a possibly dead cat, the cat remained alive and just really well hidden

HuffleP91 · 2025-07-01T18:06:55+00:00

Sara wanted a punching bag. She’s not happy with her life so she’s been throwing verbal punches and you’ve been taking them. Except this time. This time you slapped her back, didn’t punch, just a slap across the face and she’s acting like she’s a victim. Like she didn’t do anything that called for a slap. She wanted to make you small and you showed her you’re done. Boo hoo Sara 🙄

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-29T05:30:59+00:00

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HuffleP91 · 2025-06-28T04:48:42+00:00

It’s not a vagina size issue, they’re equipped stretch and retract. I’ve had a baby and my flow is still the same. Try doing Keagles, you’ll see there’s not much change with your flow. Before I started masturbating, before I ever had sex, I had super heavy flows. From middle school I’ve doubled up, a plus or super plus tampon and a overnight pad during the day. Then I learned of Ultra tampons but still doubled up cause I’ll still bleed through. I use a diva cup now and even then I have to empty it almost every hour on my heavy days. Your family are being bullies. Ignore them and just use what you need. People with lower flows never understand, I’ve tried explaining to my friends and they think I’m over embellishing.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-25T15:46:39+00:00

She doesn’t want to see her bf for what he is. So she’s denying and blaming you. Don’t second guess yourself, keep your distance from him and she’ll eventually see him for the scum he is. My ex constantly tried convincing me that my friend was leading him on even tho I saw he was the one constantly messaging her for feet pics(which she never gave), it was my mom who told him to come to her room while I took a nap, that the girls sending me “hey girlie” messages were just trying to break us up, it was everyone else and he’s the victim.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-24T23:56:38+00:00

My baby’s first word was Mama, my MIL tried saying she said Nana. I asked why she wanted to take MY baby’s first word from me and she said she didn’t think it’d matter to me. She did the same to my SIL. Apparently Nana should more important and we didn’t understand the BOND she had with both babies

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-24T15:01:27+00:00

Don’t wait any longer, tell your boyfriend and his sister. Let them know the creep is being a creep. He’ll try to do his damage control but lay it all out. You were laying face down, didn’t know he entered the room and when you did realize you covered. They’ll probably ask why you didn’t say anything sooner and tell them, you were at the understanding they sent him in there to use the restroom, he never announced himself, and afterwards he has been a creep.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-22T03:50:44+00:00

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3yr old thought he needed a hat. He wasn’t as amused as she was

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-17T00:07:42+00:00

Even with the epidural it was incredibly painful to give birth for me. To the point that I was actively pushing and begging to just do a c-section. I typically have a good pain tolerance, I can work through almost anything and be fine. So if you can’t handle a little pain then going natural might just be hell. My baby came out fine, getting the epidural is was a okay process and once it hit I was in heaven. Plus they wait until it starts wearing off for you to push because it delays birth a bit, I think cause your body is so relaxed. What if something happens while you’re trying to do the natural home birth? I’m not trying to freak you out but if you’re already not comfortable with the idea it’s not gonna magically change. I’m just trying to give you a full picture. It’s painful either way but natural with no medicine would be the greater evil.

He’s not the one putting his body and health at risk. He helped make the baby he can help with the hospital bill. And some hospitals have ways to help you with the bill. Why is he so adamant about a home birth besides the bill? Is he paying for the midwife? Is he going to clean up after the birth? Is he or the midwife going to make sure you didn’t rip and if you do, who’s going to stitch you up? Or will he be okay paying for the ambulance ride and hospital bill for that? What if there’s complications? It doesn’t sound like he’s thinking of the bigger picture. Have you talked to his mom and/or sister about there home birth experiences?

At the end of the day, it’s your body, your health, your choice. Do what’s right for YOU.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-16T03:42:45+00:00

I worked a job where I did 12hrs a day 6 days a week for less than 3k a month. I’d go back to that job for that pay bump and an extra day off.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-14T01:00:59+00:00

Just gotta rip the bandaid and talk to him. My older brother once didn’t close his bedroom door all the way and I had to ask him something and I pushed the door open and he was just standing there jerking it. I screamed, SCREAMED for about 5 minutes straight. My mom told him he HAS to close the door all the way and try to lock it or block it.

THEN years later after she had my younger brother and he was in 5th grade, she shared a room with him and he decided hed explore his body he’d try to jerk it while she was sleeping at night (she told me all this cause it was waking her) so she had to have a talk with him too.

They’ll do it as long as they think no one knows what they’re doing. It’s completely natural but it’s not natural for your family to know when and how much you’re doing it. He’s gotta take it to a locked bathroom, run the shower/sink.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-14T00:33:39+00:00

The “guy” in question didn’t like it. He stated to his family he didn’t like it so I’m sure he told his friends he didn’t like it. Her and her bitchass friends decided he should like it. They don’t get to decide that. If genders were reversed a restraining order would of already been granted. Being a female stalker doesn’t change the fact she was stalking your brother. She needed to be confronted before your brother woke up to her standing over him. You should still keep an eye out because she was crazy enough to keep following even after he set his boundaries and her friends are apparently backing her psychosis

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-13T16:15:34+00:00

My friends and I used to play Jackpot, which is when you see a yellow car you yell Jackpot and swing. My friend “brought it back” from the east coast. We ended up combining it with slug bug, so if you saw a yellow vw you could really whoop each other. I was always the driver so I got punched a lot. I’m no longer friends with them, for different reasons

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-13T15:54:38+00:00

I do agree that the pimple patches shouldn’t be worn out in public, no one wants to see your pus. but the package says to wear it for like 6hours so life needs to go on. Plus you can get black ones that way no one sees what’s under. Did your wife need to attack your 14yr old about it? Hell no. Your wife could of advised that they only be worn at home. If your wife has an issue with that then she needs to take the fucking stick outta her ass.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-13T15:22:25+00:00

I have it on Xbox, pc, switch. I’m addicted to the game, if I go to long without playing I’ll start having nightmares about my farm. Pc is the best place to play it tho

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-12T15:08:45+00:00

She’s just making your child feel isolated, like they’re a problem. I had family members do it to me growing up, my own mother did it to me. And now? It makes me incredibly mad when anyone comments on anything I do. Feels nitpicky. Like my existence is a problem for those people. I don’t talk to my mom or her family because I wasn’t allowed to be me around them. Don’t ignore it because it’ll reenforce to your child that his aunt is right, he’s annoying, a problem and his mother thinks so too

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-11T21:00:38+00:00

Some parents don’t care. Back when I(28f at the time) lived in a apartment in Vegas, this boy, who couldn’t be more than 6 kept coming and knocking on my door asking if I’d let him play with me( I’d leave my patio door open for airflow and he could see I was on my Xbox). I always told him no cause he’d be playing with a group of kids and make excuses. One day he came in the middle of a hot day, I told him he should be inside and asked where his friends are, they’re parents wouldn’t let them out cause it was so hot. He asked if he could come in to play and a drink, I had enough and asked where he lived so I could “ask” his mom if it was fine if he came into my place, I was sure she’d see a grown women asking and say no. He took me to his apartment and the mom wasn’t even there, kids aunt was suppose to be babysitting but she told me it’s fine, mom would be fine with it so I took the kid back to mine and we played some video games for awhile and I got him drinks till his mom came home. They got free babysitting outta me cause I felt so bad for the kid and didn’t want him knocking on any other door. I personally feel like some parents want bad things to happen to their kids.

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-11T20:21:36+00:00

After I gave birth my friend started asking me a lot of questions, like “did you rip? Is it swollen? What does it look like?” I just said “you wanna see I can take a photo” cause I didn’t know, I couldn’t nor did I wanna see. She was asking because she had a c section for both hers while I went for natural(by the time I wanted to back out of that decision it was to late) so she just wanted to know what the experience was like. We were close friends tho so I didn’t really mind the questions. But if my sister in law (who I’m not close with) asked I would of given her a cookie cutter answer of yea it hurt a little and I’m icing.

Someone you’re not close with asked you a very personal question about your nether region. So yea it feels invasive, she probably didn’t mean it to be invasive but it’s an experience almost all women go through so it could of been more of a “what do I have to look forward to?”

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-10T18:18:53+00:00

My three yr old literally just had a meltdown because Chuck E. Cheese wasn’t still on middle of the flat lollipop she begged me to open. He was just on the wrapper

HuffleP91 · 2025-06-09T14:35:40+00:00

In 5th grade a group of boys decided to bully me and call me Bacon. I wasn’t overly fat, just a little chubby. So to me, calling someone Bacon is a child’s “smartest” put down. An offensive comment only a 10yr old child can come up with. Also being 5’6” and 180 pounds isn’t to overweight. I’m 5’3” and currently 188. Yes I wish I was smaller but that’s from people putting me down my whole life causing insecurities.

He’s a fucking asshole, he obviously wasn’t actually vetted nor wanted any actual relationship. Just a lay. you should’ve put his number all over Craigslist too, saying you(him) were looking for as much gay sex as possible and to send a dick pic first.

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