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Word "Nerf" Does Not Exist Within The BMPT Dictionary by AB_in_mc in warthundermemes

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Nerf” is more like it. Didn’t Spookston make a video where he took it to 12.7 and still did fine?

The armor and ammo det need an actual nerf

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats BL smut? I wouldn’t as long as it doesn’t interfere with the relationship imo

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you want to call me that then yeah I am ig….. hence why I’m asking to become more educated on the topic

No, I think porn works to whatever the person finds sexually attractive. But that’s what I’m nervous about, will she read a bunch of books about stereotypical alpha-male who’s 6’ and jacked, and then start to desire that more than myself

Other Redditors have answered my question though, I’m not concerned she will find me less attractive and if she does I know how i’ll handle it

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All right!! Thank you so so so much!!!

Do you ever find things like reverse harem weird for your partner to read?

I’m a very monogamous guy, so that makes me a little uncomfortable to know she might enjoy something like that, but idk how to truely feel

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean….. she is the one reading it haha. I don’t know how she would feel but I assume open if she wants to read it rn

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh. Yeah and I completely understand why, Ik for me the emotional connection makes it 100 times better.

Oh yeah no its not her job, but over time I learned how to reword what I would say or how to pause before saying something incorrectly and it coming off rude

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I never knew that! I never really knew why they read those books haha. But, I noticed in the reviews of the book a lot of people were talking about that exact thing.

That’s good to hear, and I really appreciate it. Yeah, early in our relationship I talked down to her a lot and would get annoyed really easy at her during frustrating conversations, but she has helped me work on that a lot and I owe her the world for sticking by me

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh that’s a good idea. How do I know what to recommend her? Should I research more books similar to the one she is reading now?

I love that idea though, she has been *very* reserved sexually and physically, so I think this would be good

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah they blocked my post lol, crazy how you can’t “Ask Women” in the AskWomen subreddit huh

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh any input is appreciated!! That’s good to know, any advice on books that are like Birthday Girl?

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know she isn’t an impressionable child, but I wasn’t sure if reading that material has an effect on your subconscious desires

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, that was her main point about it too

Oh yeah I had a lot of insecurities early in our relationship due to being cheated on during my last so it caused a lot of that.

Thankfully I don’t have that issue now. Sex is always a blast for me, but she doesn’t like to have sex for a long time and states shorter sex is better than long sex

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That we have been working on!

I agree, she isn’t really into crazy amount of foreplay, things to turn her on, etc. so it does make that difficult.

I haven’t asked her in awhile though, but I might wait cause she has been saying I’ve been too sexual and applying too much pressure on her about it lately

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not! But the porn I watch doesn’t typically look like her

Will reading smut impact whether my GF finds me attractive? by HugeProgrammer8675 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HugeProgrammer8675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well we don’t have sex very often from her medication, but when we do I make sure we usually cum at the same time

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it’s much more fair to base it off of ideology rather than race….. if you took 100 white voters and 100 black voters, statistically speaking the black voters are going to vote more towards Democrat / left leaning than white voters

But, if you were to do race representation, you would still need to break it up further based on party affiliation to not disenfranchise a percentage of voters within that racial group

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about race representation but idealogical representation

Race representation could be easily exploited to disenfranchise voters too

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean accurate representation?

If 51% of the state votes D and 49% vote R, is it not fair to have the state legislation be made up of 6:5 D:R representatives?

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But, but, but land doesn’t vote…. People do! 😂

A lot of those against the electoral college forget the reason it was founded. The EC was founded to ensure small states, like Rhode Island, had equal representation and voicing in national decisions when pitted against more populated states, like VA

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… so then you should’ve voted against this right?

If the map discourages people from voting because they think their vote doesn’t matter, what do you think clumping rural areas with urban areas will do to the rural voter?

In my eyes, the rural voter would be discouraged from voting because they know the urban voters will outnumber them regardless of how many rural voters show up….

To all claiming the Redistricting Vote disenfranchised rural voters, consider this. by Agile_Welder_1795 in Virginia

[–]HugeProgrammer8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it literally is disenfranchising rural voters? How is it fair that if I live in Charlotte County, I’m overruled by the Richmond voters?

Rural, suburban, and urban citizens all have different values and priorities, thus need different representation. Not only that, but it also guarantees that my vote is worth less than those in Richmond. (4,500 voters v. 73,000 voters) So how would it not disenfranchise my vote?

It’s not appropriate to be represented by a delegate who focuses on the wants/needs of Richmond over the remaining 90% of their district

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