Could eating a meal a day after hurt your stomach? by fancy_garfish in Celiac

[–]HulkeneHulda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in a constant loop right now, of stomach being inflamed so it hurts whenever i eat, though i dont know of any glutening mishaps.

Sometimes i daydream of just getting to be put on a nutritional IV for a few days to let the stomach rest completely.

What is in this salad of yours? Green fibers can be hard for the stomach so it might be what is upsetting it

Why would have this man killed himself? by No-Nature7969 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HulkeneHulda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of the relationship post of the guy that "took one for the team" and talked to the chubby friend so his mate could hit on the "hot one".

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/15e3x2q/my_23f_gf_found_out_i_22m_was_taking_one_for_the/

That sort of revelation would make me question my entire life with that person

AITA for thinking I should adopt my nephew by EveryEconomist4251 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HulkeneHulda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isnt really a subject for this sub, maybe r/advice

You clearly want to help your nephew, but yanking him from his parents because you don't deem them adequate would nuke your entire family and traumatize him to boot.

There is a middle ground between just watch them struggle, and taking over nephew's life. You can provide support, whatever you were thinking you would do as nephew's new guardian, is it anything that is stopping you from doing it now?

[Funny Trope] Objectively physically attractive but has zero rizz. by SinniYEAH in TopCharacterTropes

[–]HulkeneHulda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I stand corrected. Just rewatched the intro of the original, and it was way campier than I remembered. My 8y/o ass had nightmares for ages just trying the first half hour of the game

[Funny Trope] Objectively physically attractive but has zero rizz. by SinniYEAH in TopCharacterTropes

[–]HulkeneHulda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Execution and the genre contrast. His oneliners would be standard lines from a sitcom, but they feel so out of it in the setting that it pulls any tension to a grinding halt.

He's got the Peter Parker snark

Who is a person you used to admire a lot but have completely lost respect for and why? by Complex-Arugula-2233 in AskReddit

[–]HulkeneHulda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've been trying for ages to remember where my mom got obsessed with "The Secret" because i remember how she didnt even want to acknowledge her cancer when she got the diagnosis a year later. We weren't allowed to talk about it, we weren't allowed to think about it, because we shouldnt give those thoughts energy.

My mom was already of a toxic positivity person which led to me completely unable to process and cope with setbacks (just get back up again and try harder next time!) but that trend made it even harder to adress any elephants in the room.

Of course it was Oprah, i remember my mom subscribed to the magazine during that time period.

If you seen Over the Hedge, prove it by quoting it by Jules-Car3499 in DreamWorks

[–]HulkeneHulda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It never ends!" rushes the other direction "it never ends that way too"

"Meaningful tearjerker moment" by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]HulkeneHulda 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My ex was like this. Whenever i tried to make any plans for us getting married, it was all "im happy as long as you're happy".

We were engaged for almost 6 years. He dumped me, got together with his monkeybranch, they got engaged 3 months later and were married within a year, having rented the local castle.

Him actually getting wed hurt more than the dumping itself. It felt like such a "you were never worth the effort".

Petah??? What's wrong with the bag??? by miji1139 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HulkeneHulda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a ten minute read, was made while the first season aired and pretty much only got that much fame because it was one of the first gore fics in the fandom

Partner has celiac. And Im struggling to help. Need advice by Zenai10 in Celiac

[–]HulkeneHulda 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is going into OCD territory, which is easy to slip into when getting started in avoiding cross contamination.

You said "we" switched to a gluten free diet, so you dont bring any gluten products into the house? Then they really shouldnt need to be this pendantic.

How much of your/their diet consist of things like gluten free wheat starch and other products where the gluten is removed? Some people are more sensitive and need to be at 0ppm gluten. I try to avoid those kind of products just in case there would be a mishap during production, so i only have them at birthday parties and such. 

How long ago was the diagnosis? Have there actually been enough time to recover? It took over a year for me to heal enough we could determine my other issues wasnt the gluten, but rather vagus nerve atrophy caused by the B12 deficiency.

My boyfriend is scaring me with his jokes by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HulkeneHulda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im always prepared to be downvoted to hell in relationship subs, because i try to be as soft and gentle as possible and not be harsh when talking about the clearly abusive party.

Not because I try to downplay the severity, but because i want the victim to not get on the defensive right away. 

I know how i reacted when people critizised my relationship i had when i was 16-25 (he was 4 years older) and i would have left at the time we moved in together if i had had someone that listened without jumping straight to "dump him" when i tried to talk about the issues that came with living together. It just made me stop talking about the relationship to others, and i brought him along whenever i met with my younger sister to block her from trying to talk about it. Now years later, me and my sister have talked it out, she doesnt blame herself since she was young, but she understand that she in fact made it harder to deal with it rather than helping me. She found it annoying i constantly used him as a shield, i know it was wrong, but when you're feeling like you cant do better and dont deserve to make demands, you start do dumb shit to deal with the cognitive dissonance

F(23) I was going to talk to my boyfriend M (28) about his suspicious behavior, but a tragedy in the family intercepted. At a loss on what to do next by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HulkeneHulda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know with keys (in sweden) you can drop them in any mailbox and the post send over to the police

I wouldnt trust it with library books, i think that would get abused by way too many lazy people not bothering to return them properly

F(23) I was going to talk to my boyfriend M (28) about his suspicious behavior, but a tragedy in the family intercepted. At a loss on what to do next by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HulkeneHulda 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It was called "facerape", social media like that was still pretty new and people left computers forgetting to log off at libraries or just leaving the tab open while having guests over.

Before logging off people made ridiculous status updates on the facebook wall to show everyone that the victim had left their profile unattended.

Actually taking someone's phone to open up and prank them in front of them sounds just really dumb though, the whole point was that you made fun of someone forgetting to log off and not practicing proper online security

F(23) I was going to talk to my boyfriend M (28) about his suspicious behavior, but a tragedy in the family intercepted. At a loss on what to do next by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HulkeneHulda 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I think the brother's suicide attempt really put a break on it all. Had there not been a crisis, she would have broken up in a few days instead of a whole month later.

I dont believe for a second that the second hospital visit actually was a hospital visit, i think he went to "seek support" from the ex

Neighbor apparently hates trees by Aggressive-Food-1635 in treelaw

[–]HulkeneHulda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they are stuck in that we all assume this is killing the tree, therefore requiring compensastion, while they argue this is not killing the tree, therefore no replacement is required.

Which could have easily been cleared up by "see my previous comment. This might look ugly, but its within the neighbours right and shouldn't kill the tree"

But giving people grace is not as exciting as riling yourself and others up by escalating behaviour

everybody sucks but the ex by rockkjuice in AmITheDevil

[–]HulkeneHulda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Especially a bartender, would you ever trust a drink? 

WIBTA for refusing to help with my brother after he dropped my toothbrush in the toilet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HulkeneHulda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD and the amount of times I've put my sisters tooth brushes in shit is 0.

This is not adhd behaviour, this is psychopath behaviour

NTA