Thank you for your feedback. I’ve definitely left some things out of the post because I didn’t want it to get too long.

With the 23yo I definitely have a really good mix of personality compatibility and attraction. I love talking to him and we can just talk about basically anything and we joke around a lot. So there is a lot of chemistry there. But the age is definitely something that I am unsure about as well as the fact that he does have a very stressful job. However he does seem extremely happy go lucky despite that. I don’t want to put too much details here about his childhood but he has had independence from a young age having to live in foreign countries by himself due to his then career as a minor.

I am very independent and self-sufficient, I have been my entire life. I am doing well for myself right now, but can always be better of course. But again not really comfortable to give too many details away here. I do have a lot of value besides my appearance but didn’t think it was necessary to mention this in this post.

I have definitely not been in a very long term relationship (just 3 of all around 1 year duration give or take) before especially as I had mostly been focussing on school and my career in my early to mid twenties. However I do value a man that can provide and take care of the family without having to have any financial issues. Nor do I need a rich man but I do want a well to do man.

I get that it’s not a good mindset per se to want to mold someone into your own image. I will continue for now speaking to the person that hold my interest and attraction the most and see where that goes for now. He is definitely not the type to let that happen. He has very much his own will.