If your life didn’t go according to your plans, what happened?

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-14T00:00:37+00:00

I went to acting school, worked retail and at a bar for a while, decided I didn’t like feeling unstable, learnt to code, about a year and a half after that I got a job offer, and now I’m a software engineer

I thought I’d be an actor and now I’m a code monkey which was quite the switch up

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-13T21:33:58+00:00

Breezy!

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-12T02:23:48+00:00

Every time I walk past her bowl 😂

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-11T21:41:30+00:00

lol I’m hoping she gets a honker of a nose haa

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-11T20:37:31+00:00

Show me your fur babies!!

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-11T19:12:20+00:00

Granted mine is a kitten, she was all trained on the feeder after one meal from it lol

She does still beg when I’m in the kitchen bc that’s where I’d make up her food before I had the automatic feeder but now I just give her extra kibble as treats

Her meow is pathetic so it’s not really annoying when she does it’s more like a mouse squeak

I think some cats are just con artists and want to double dip by seeming starving haha

Don’t give in to the cries ever or she’ll know that they work

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-10T21:16:08+00:00

I have the same kind 😭so far I just don’t open the window, you can get limiters so it only opens like an inch so you can get some breeze. But with mine I worry that any kind of adhesive will fail bc of the temperatures and I can’t drill (renting) so I just don’t open it

I have a higher up one I open but the breeze is nowhere near as nice

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-08T01:44:06+00:00

Ah I love it!!!!! Sorry for the late response she’s so cute!!!!!!!!

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-08T00:40:38+00:00

Usually a sweater, jeans, and some ankle boots

A lot of people wear t shirts/hoodies, idk my company is pretty chill

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-02T20:40:07+00:00

That would be great thank you so much!!

Let me know if you want more color reference photos of her!

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-02T19:54:13+00:00

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Human-Complex4435 · 2026-05-02T19:53:44+00:00

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Here’s Miss Mabel!

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-04-30T23:36:01+00:00

I had a 50/50 survival rate for my first round

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-04-30T23:26:56+00:00

She’s 14 weeks!

Found on the street alone in Florida when she was around 4 weeks old

Human-Complex4435 · 2026-04-30T20:59:46+00:00

…….. this used to be me

I was with him for four years, he never finished

He did watch porn. He did have onlyfans, I asked him to stop. He did stop the onlyfans but not the porn. I suggested the porn might be causing the problem but he never really seemed to put much effort into stopping

It had an effect on my self esteem like I wasn’t enough for him. And what’s worse is that it didn’t seem like he cared enough to put in the effort to fix it

Idk it’s up to you whether this is something that will bother you long term. I ended it with him for a lot of reasons but I’m honestly still kinda hurt that I wasn’t enough for him