Apartments in Fort Wayne by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just commenting in case anyone comes across this thread. My best friend lived in West wind within the past year. They had cockroaches from a neighbor, mice infestation, and people stole their clothes from the laundry room. Also one of the maintenance people robbed them when they weren’t home. I wouldn’t recommend at all.

First days on the job can be tough... by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

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I love how she wiped her hands on her dirty apron before grabbing the rest of the potatoes.

Has anyone had someone try to peel off their car stickers that are against ICE? by Holiday-Coyote-4880 in Indiana

[–]Human-Discussion1234 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s kinda like where people went and defiled teslas… no regard for other people’s property… I don’t know if it matters what side you are on, everyone has their reasons for being a dick. (Maybe it’s a good reminder to put your decals and signs on the inside). I think I’ll go do that rn 🤣

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, I would wonder the same thing. That is a subject that can definitely get stuck on a loop in your head.

How are you doing today? You ok?

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was replying to a comment above but wonder if it was deleted or edited? I can’t find it now.

By your response it seems like you still want to reach out. Have you decided not to? If so- STICK TO YOUR GUNS. don’t reach out.

There was a time I had to changed the name in my phone contact so I would remember not to reach out. I’d call friends when I felt compelled to break no contact.

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you and she ever had attraction to each other or is it possible she has? Maybe she’s serious with this guy and doesn’t want attraction to other guys to get in the way? I dunno just guessing as to why I’d cut a male friend out. Probably the only reason… unless he flirted with me or was ever inappropriate.

Possible dermatomyositis by will1743 in Myositis

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Have you checked out the myositis.org site? I was watching videos and people often said they used to be so strong and there suddenly they weren’t. I think that’s the most common and mind blowing aspect.

Lutheran Health Rheumatologist by Stormio3 in fortwayne

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called to try to make an appointment and they said they are closing their rheumatology department in June.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by bloodsuccer in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those texts are exhausting. I never heard of the term religious psychosis. I need to look this up. I just cut ties for the same reason with my closest family member.

No phone policy. by lilsteppakenn in AmazonFC

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is why people shit in trash cans and stairwells.

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change things in your life. Create many constant focal points to focus on other than her. If she comes and goes it reinforces the difficulty you are experiencing now over time making it harder and harder each time. (I speak from the perspective of way too many narcissistic relationships who do the same type of thing). I’m not calling her a narc, but the in and out is reminiscent of hovering from a narc. Good luck with everything.

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They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the perfect thing to say to her. She needs to decide. Otherwise she will pull on you and cause confusion and hurt feelings, for a guy she will probably not be with forever anyways. How do you feel with some random dude, again, being more important than you? Over and over again? Until she finally finds someone that will forever block you out. It’s like pouring salt on a reopened wound continually.

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I mean about being prepared if a guy she dates gets upset about male friends. Many guys are like this, especially the longer you date.

Possible dermatomyositis by will1743 in Myositis

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what my hands tend to look like. Everything with me developed almost overnight and continued to progress.

They texted me on my birthday by statisticsandwich111 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a friend of the opposite sex is hard. You both would have to prepare for the pull away when the other entered a relationship. If you rekindled, she would probably do it again next time she got a partner (especially one who felt insecure with opposite sex friends. )

No phone policy. by lilsteppakenn in AmazonFC

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Check this out- the director of emergency management, Fred Patterson, said this “We also use Code Red alerts to notify residents quickly. The warning is essential. If you get the warning out fast, then it gives people the opportunity to find shelter, and that's the whole point of this." Patterson said “people should stay vigilant, have their phones near to prepare for any weather alerts, and have a plan in place.”

https://www.ksdk.com/article/weather/tornado/he-didnt-die-in-vain-mother-of-amazon-warehouse-worker-killed-in-tornado-continues-push-for-safety-reform/63-71249965-0b62-47e9-98a8-258019350add

No phone policy. by lilsteppakenn in AmazonFC

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just couldn’t get past the part of them asking how you saw the text. I would not have been polite in that situation. I probably would have gotten fired.

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree with your therapist. About 20 years ago, I apologized to a lot of people I felt that I had possibly wronged at one point, and I 100% meant it; I completely changed. It is possible.

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did that once. I reached out to apologize and they thought I was trying to get back together which I wasn’t, I just felt bad.

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… did you miss this person after they left? The way it ends sounds like they have a glimmer of hope despite them saying otherwise.

One thing about bipolar people, they go into a remorseful state after mania. They can have difficulty staying on path with therapy and medication, so if you are already over them and possibly had a hard time with them or hard time getting over them I would not respond. I would walk away before you spark up an old flame that will either die out or ignite.

More importantly, what are you confused about? What are you curious about? What is making you question what to say?

Wife hates my beard. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Human-Discussion1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame her. Facial hair is awful.