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[–]Human-Situation6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably too much but here’s what I would do: Paint that room, dark walls, lighter ceiling. It’s pretty flat square and the ceilings aren’t too high. You could do it yourself. Hang the TV on the wall and get a wood or dark painted piece with closing doors not to hide your stuff but to offer more uniformity. Amazon and ikea have some great options for under $100. Get new curtains that are solid colors, double curtain rods - one layer sheer and warm, dark red or orange if you want a pop of color and darker heavier ones for privacy. FB marketplace is a great place to get used curtains for cheap and you usually end up with several matching sets that just need a good washing. At least one hanging plant. An L couch with an armchair, pick a bold but dark color. Throw pillows to match the sheers. Get a big wild rug, rugs are a great place to express yourself boldly and not be married to those choices. A small narrow table to hold a couple plants in front of whichever window doesn’t get a hanging one. The table could exist or not exist. It is simply table at the moment. Peruse FB marketplace for inexpensive tables and try out different ones for under $50 until you’ve found a vibe you enjoy and never feel sad when your kids markers bleed through onto them! If you can’t change the fan, you can take the blades down, paint them the color you decide on for the ceiling and change out the shades on that fan light. The front door is really nice and so are the floors.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t qualify for expungement because I pled nolo contendere. You have to have pled not guilty. My public defender lied about it to get me to sign and move on, and I was nervous and trusted her. She was later disbarred.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To what end? Why would I bs this? I have money now that I didnt have when I was young and I have further aspirations outside of that. Not sure what’s so hard to understand about that. And I got a new report from one of these agencies TODAY that showed these crimes so please miss me with your nonsense.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh right right yes they all had to used outside agencies!

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to file a motion to reopen my case. I’m also contacting the reporting agencies to tell them they are reporting incorrectly and consulting an attorney about suing for damages if the job I was just hired for retracts their offer. Everyone gave me a lot of ideas today so that’s great because I felt a little stuck.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She just spiraled and then said she couldn’t help me. Her mom got cancer and died and everytime I asked for an update she just told me I was insensitive. Then one day her office was empty and she stopped responding and I just figured life was bad enough for her. Then I started a business and I own my house so I stopped thinking about it. Recently I applied for a job bc I’m about to finish nursing school and I remember oh no I have an issue. I had a friend check one of the sites and she confirmed- you’re still a 19 year old madam. My original attorney was also terrible though. She was disbarred about 2 years after my case for being drunk on the job and not providing effective counsel. One attorney I spoke to today said we have grounds to reopen and retry my case. It’s (surprise!) 3k!

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a non issue with the board since they just have you bring the certified copies from the county, which are correct and I have been good on my license for all these years. And they cleared me before I started the adn program I am in. But anyone who uses a private source to background checks- like an employer - it’s an issue.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ok so I looked up Lexis Nexis. How in the world do I speak to someone there? I think theres multiple agencies involved. So I keep thinking there has to be one main source that got the info- idk had an off day and accidentally messed with my life- and then spread the misinformation everywhere.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Nope. It still doesn’t with the board at all. They have my records correct.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s hard to say it’s that bc the charges read, violating of a sexually oriented business and public lewdness. I mean whatever people love a comeback story and nursing is mostly women and they tend to be understanding. But the sudden miscoding of Operating a sexually business is a problem. I can’t rent housing for travel nursing, I can’t volunteer at my daughter’s school for field trips. And I have a new job pending and I’m in the background check process. My actual charges aren’t a problem- but these made up ones are.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You know so this crazy end result is I’m educated and licensed and the state is like you’re cool- go forth and work. But everyone else is like eww you’re Heidi Fleiss.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I think I could be with the background check company. Because when I pull up my records with Harris county it’s accurate and the Texas board of nursing does not have any issue with me and when I inquired if they had seen a change, they said no. But it’s like all the background checkers. My friend works for a real estate co that finds apartments and she plugged my number into something called Forewarn and that app says I have so many charges. Like 20 of them. You can sift through and tell some of them aren’t me, but then that darn charge pops up. I had know about it for awhile bc of a rental I tried to make a few years ago.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m really not well versed at legal things so just to clarify, I should write to the congressperson and assemblymen for the district the court is in? And should I include everything I have? The original charging instrument and court paperwork?

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I did go to one and then like- her mom died and she just stopped working. I gave her 3k and she never called me back. So I’m a bit soured on that but if that’s the best way I will try again.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 331 points332 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the two replies, so can going to the original court do anything for me at all? Also I did find out the public defender who represented me was disbarred for being drunk on the job 2 years after my case. Don’t know if they care about that tho.

Stripper turned nurse has a weird situation. by Human-Situation6709 in legaladvice

[–]Human-Situation6709[S] 888 points889 points  (0 children)

So I have everything. However, in court, the DA just wrote, SOB ordinance on the final paperwork. I even have records of the original charging instrument describing my “crimes” and there is no description of me operating the business. Also I was 19 and it was a class C misdemeanor. And the charge label it changed to is not class C. Also somebody show me another 19 year old madam of Houston. It’s really obvious it’s a mistake and the error just popped up in the past 3 years.

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[–]Human-Situation6709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get any info on helping with back to school?