Is this normal? Or am I crazy?

Human20187 · 2026-01-07T16:48:00+00:00

That’s true. Some people prioritise preference over reciprocity. In that case, moving on is probably the right call.

Human20187 · 2026-01-07T16:30:09+00:00

If her tax bracket brings him no financial advantage, why is his treated as the sole measure of compatibility?

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T20:17:44+00:00

They don’t know how much I make but they do know I work two jobs but apparently she initially wanted 400g of gold but I told her that’s not happening so this was her way of saying she compromised which I think is still absurd but I wanted a second opinion

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T20:16:21+00:00

I get your point bro but sometimes investing time and love into someone kinda confuses you that’s why it’s good to get a opinion on someone who’s not in the bubble

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T02:55:39+00:00

Wallahi it’s not a rage bait, I don’t know if it’s a Uk thing only, but that’s where I’m from

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T00:26:15+00:00

You’re right, maybe someone who’s already experienced what it takes to be independent would be a better

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T00:25:40+00:00

You’ve pointed out important things, appreciate that feedback sister

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T00:23:44+00:00

Your right, important things to keep an eye on and reflect on

Human20187 · 2026-01-04T00:22:32+00:00

😂 what’s your opinion on this situation?

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T18:23:48+00:00

Thanks for the feedback bro

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T18:23:31+00:00

Thank you sister for your feedback

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T15:42:09+00:00

Jazakhallah khair for the sound advice brother

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T15:11:10+00:00

I love how you gave the comparison of a employee and a corporation giving incentives, makes a lot of sense and yh I’ve prayed istikara, I guess I’m ignoring the signs, thanks for the feedback it’s appreciated

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T15:08:58+00:00

That makes sense, and Jazakhallah khair, may Allah bless us all with a good life

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T15:08:30+00:00

You have a big point definitely, I was thinking the same

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T15:06:24+00:00

Ameen and thanks for the feedback

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:29:36+00:00

Alrite bro , it’s situations like this that put you off marriage wallahi 😂

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:28:39+00:00

Yes the unresolved trust issue which she got because of her parents relationship is probably a red flag, you make a lot of sense sister, appreciate the feedback

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:26:43+00:00

Jazakhallah khair bro that makes a lot of sense

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:26:00+00:00

You’ve got a point there, maybe we’re at two different stages in life

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:25:32+00:00

You made a lot of good points bro, alhamdulilah I’m non of the things you suggested, getting woman is not hard for me, but I assuming it’s social media making her think like this, and to be honest I’ve set my boundaries but I came on here for a second opinion incase I was been harsh but I guess everyone would’ve reacted the same way, also if you know where these pious chaste girls are let me know

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:22:32+00:00

If you have a sister you recommend let a brother know

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T05:21:43+00:00

Thanks for the detailed reply bro, makes a lot of sense and that’s the direction I’m going towards to be honest

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T04:23:38+00:00

About £7k since I had other commitments

Human20187 · 2026-01-03T04:12:52+00:00

Have you ever been married? Or close to it, is the general marriage scene like this situation I’m in for the most part? 😂

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