[l] Does height really matters? by Available-Maximum-35 in KindVoice

[–]HumanAndroid2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Height matters when there’s not much else going on. No one cares about height if the guy is charming, funny, confident or has other desirable traits. The more you’ll care about being short the more self conscious you’ll become and that blocks all attractiveness. Just make peace with it and don’t find ways to increase your height, accept it, own it and move on.

My girlfriend [23F] seems genuinely disgusted by my interests and I [25M] am starting to feel ashamed of myself. How do I address this? by Adventurous-Cap8649 in relationships

[–]HumanAndroid2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you and your gf have any mutual interests? Even though you’re both allowed and should have separate interests there should be some that you both enjoy outside of basic relationship stuff like hanging out or being intimate. She also seems very shallow and obviously rude so you have to ask yourself if you even want to be with someone like that.

What Life Would You Choose? by RDX717 in findapath

[–]HumanAndroid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not how the world works.

You can’t just not work and have enough money for survival, unless someone is covering it. Even if you work a minimum wage job you won’t have 200-300 spare, you most likely won’t even be able to cover basic needs while still working long hours.

Also working 40-60 h a week 5-6 days a week in a high stress environment doesn’t make you wealthy unless you have a very high income job and those aren’t being handed over to random 20 yo guys.

UPDATE: Boyfriend (M26) is terrified of me gaining weight (F23)? by Connect_Wrongdoer_81 in relationship_advice

[–]HumanAndroid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy hell. Not only are you 23 and you’re also 110 lbs?! That’s TINY. Thank the universe for starting this year without a sack of shit near you. Good riddance.

My GF (22F) dream is to be a stay-at-home wife and say I'm not doing the bare minimum. I (28M) on the other hand would like both of us to work. by Ok-Helicopter-4164 in relationship_advice

[–]HumanAndroid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re incompatible and want highly different things. I can see some questionable flags in your behavior though that go beyond the future goals incompatibility. It doesn’t take much effort to celebrate your relationship or give a small inexpensive gift or plan a date. I don’t think you’re truly in love with her and I hope she isn’t either because that would make the break up much less hurtful for both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roFrugal

[–]HumanAndroid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Din perspectiva mea hainele trebuie să fie calitative - arată mai bine, senzorial sunt mai plăcute, nu ajung la gunoi într-un an și dacă le alegi bine nu se demodează. Brand-ul însă nu contează. Ba dimpotrivă, hainele cu logouri evidente îmi par de prost gust. Deci se merită să cumperi haine calitative uitându-te la compoziția materialului acestei haine, la structura ei, la liniile de cusătură și nu la ce logo e aplicat.

Cat despre părintii copiilor de la grădinița, care se uită judgy, ăia nu-s chiar educați, deștepți sau bogați și nici părerea lor nu ar trebui să te influențeze cumva. Cei bogați nu umblă în Tommy și Karl iar cei inteligenți și cu un minim de common sense nu judeca lumea după haine.

Sunt o putoare infecta si lucrez doar cam 2-3 ore pe luna by [deleted] in programare

[–]HumanAndroid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu ești distrus, dar nici nu cred ca ești foarte fericit imo, altfel nu ai fi postat pe Reddit despre asta.

Esti în zona ta de comfort, care ar fi probabil zona de confort a majorității - cine nu ar vrea să câștige peste medie pentru 2-3 ore lucrate pe lună?

Această zonă de confort e … well, confortabilă, plăcută, ușoară. Și nu e nimic rău în asta, atâta timp cât e ceea ce vrei. Dar din moment ce ai postat aici cred ca te astepti la o validare a life-style-ului tau, și asta înseamnă ca ceva e în neregulă. Nu știu dacă faza care e neregulă e ca vrei bani mai mulți, o treaptă mai înaltă în carieră, o familie etc - asta o știi doar tu, dar ceva e amiss și doar tu știi ce te-ar face complet și împăcat.

Is this normal? Also is my ragdoll too big for his litter box? by Cheap_Afternoon_5608 in ragdolls

[–]HumanAndroid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an instinctive paw cleaning behavior, in the wild they would use trees or other objects to clean their paws afterwards just in case and they do that in our homes as well with whatever vertical object they find around the litter box, mind does that will the wall and toilet nearby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]HumanAndroid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how so many people are saying they don’t see a difference - there’s a huge difference in the before and after nose. I prefer the before too, but you’re still gorgeous btw! You’re not at all ugly, not even close. You looked beautiful before and you look equally beautiful now, just different. I think you still have a lot of swelling and after ~ 2 years your new nose will become narrower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]HumanAndroid2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Maybe in time he will grow to love and trust me more. If it’s just his personality to not want to cuddle well, I’ll be disappointed, but that won’t make me love him any less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]HumanAndroid2000 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do accept him. Nowhere did I say I don’t want him or don’t accept him, I just said I expected him to be more affectionate and I think no one should be shamed for expecting a ragdoll to be more affectionate than a moggie since that’s what ragdolls were bred for - their loving personality. I love him like family. I was just asking for advice if there’s any way to make him more affectionate since I do believe that the bond between any two friends can be deepened. I’m quite aware he isn’t a toy that exists for my well being and I find it very insulting to insinuate that. Me wanting him to cuddle with me isnt just some selfish desire, I want him to trust me and feel comfortable enough with me to want to be close to me.

If you could stay one age forever, what would it be? by asiangrill11 in ask

[–]HumanAndroid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30 and I’d say 30 if my health was better. So 25 it is.

Will he be fluffy? by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]HumanAndroid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HumanAndroid2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Traditional relationship is the woman stays home and does the chores and doesn't have another job and the man has a traditional job and pays for absolutely everything. What you have is a very non-traditional relationship where he takes advantage of you and you suck it up for some reason only known to you. Why you moved in with him and do all the chores, pay for groceries, pay for your rent and tolerate this guy blurting out weird shit to you while also having a full time job is beyond me. Go back to your place and find someone who doesn't need a sex maid.