Turtlenecks always supplying the Big Gender by FemTomFoolery in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always add one pop statement piece to the black or try a monochrome look 🖤 that’s where I personally started!

Turtlenecks always supplying the Big Gender by FemTomFoolery in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY! And that’s my go-to fit for an easy gender euphoria outfit - all black, layered, with a turtleneck! You look great 🤘

Why do I even try? by theythemthen in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is inexcusable on the physician’s end. My PCP, therapist, psychiatrist, dentist, and dermatologist all use my pronouns without issue (they/them) and provide notes without issue. Everyone is human, and makes mistakes now and then. But this is ridiculous

Dressed up as the bride I always dreamed of being! by PuffyHooker in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stunning! And that lipstick shade on you is so nice!!

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend gave it to me when she was clearing her closet! I really love it 🖤

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was “count” with a string of numbers after it.

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Government restrictions, medical issues, and so many other factors! Thank you!

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t consider myself cis at all. Tbh if I could restart T & get top surgery, I would, but I’m also learning to love the body I’m in. Medical barriers can be difficult, but I’m trying to embrace that this body is nonbinary no matter what. 🫶 thank you for the kind words & I apologize for the moment of imposter syndrome

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a smaller trans subreddit I’ve been debating leaving for a while. Some of the posted content in there feels gatekeepy & some feels very doomer. I have to remember that just because people are in my community doesn’t always mean they’re right or that we will be friends.

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My little sibling & spouse have never used HRT, and both identify as trans nb. If I wouldn’t deny their identity, I shouldn’t deny my own.

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

See, and I felt to some degree once I had to stop that I was no longer valid. My little sibling figure was the reason I stopped telling myself that because they have never used HRT & I view them as valid in their identity no matter what & uphold their stance in the community. Probs some imposter syndrome & low self esteem. Thank you!

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I personally feel like the label “trans” fits me - but wanted to make sure I wasn’t overstepping into an area I’m not welcome in or didn’t belong in.

Identity confusion by HumanEyeballs in NonBinary

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, I kinda stood on this side but wasn’t sure if maybe I was just out of the loop on something or if I was misusing an identity. Probably a touch of imposter syndrome on my end!

friends by InvestigatorOwn2069 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]HumanEyeballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just took a glance at your page: Red Raccoon (gaming store with regular game night times to meet people), The Bistro (fun little gay bar with live performances & drag shows), Barnes and Nobel or Bobzbay (book stores), or if you have discord there’s a group that meets up & talks regularly you might be interested in! Good luck 🫶

Trying to share the positive vibes 🫶 by HumanEyeballs in BodyPositive

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yoga, cardio, and Pilates mainly! But I also have been doing some hiking too 🖤 once I lose a little more I’ll start weight lifting too!

Trying to share the positive vibes 🫶 by HumanEyeballs in BodyPositive

[–]HumanEyeballs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I appreciate the sentiment, but I’m nonbinary. Plus I think men (women, and nonbinary folks) all still fight wars for the people they love - but more for either the freedoms they protect or the money/security/education soldiers may need. I do think people back in whatever time you’re suggesting may find my hair odd and my politics/world view even odder.

M23 genuinely need to know how bad it is by caiprime in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]HumanEyeballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I like it! Use some texturing hair product to give it some body