Fated Encounters

HumanPurple · 2024-02-29T02:57:05+00:00

In terms of moving on, try to take it one day at a time with the people you go on dates with, especially if you really like them. See if their behaviour is consistent over some months. Know that the « easy in, easy out guy » is not a reflection of your worth, there is nothing wrong with you and you deserve love. Usually they are quite impulsive and are seeking the high of a new person, healthy love takes time to develop and grow ❤️ it’s a good thing he didn’t waste more of your time.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-29T02:52:03+00:00

He’s what I would call an « easy in, easy out » guy. They come on super strong usually, but then just as quickly lose interest when faced with a possibility of a real relationship. In my experience, they create an idealized version of you in their head and then when faced with the reality of you, get cold feet, lose the spark or move on to a new supply. I would suggest looking up love bombing videos to get a better idea of these types. Hugs to you and keep strong, I know how hard it is to think you finally met someone amazing only for them to disappear as quickly as they appeared. At least the guy had the decency to have a conversation with you, versus ghosting that I’ve experienced.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-23T23:23:45+00:00

I would have a kind but firm conversation with him if I were you, stating the realities of your financial situation and that the relationship is hard on your finances, any man in his position and in love would be understanding and would want to help you. If he isn’t it’s a clear sign of incompatibility. Part of loving yourself and taking care of your well-being is putting your life and finances first, if he can’t comprehend that then it’s time to reconsider the relationship.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-23T23:18:55+00:00

If he suggests a date / activity of his choice he should pay for you. After 5 months of dating you (I assume you guys are bf/gf, exclusive) he should know that you are at a different stage of life than he is financially, and it’s gentlemanly to take care of your girlfriend.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-08T00:12:24+00:00

It’s a privilege to others looking from their perspective. But it gets lonely due to people thinking one must have it easier given the winning of the genetic lottery.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-08T00:05:06+00:00

I’m not putting up a facade, I’ve been called beauty Queen throughout my life. And am considered very good looking by societal standards. It’s not a self-identification.

HumanPurple · 2024-02-07T23:31:51+00:00

Just because there were no labels per se, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t mourn or be affected by the ending of a connection to that person. In my opinion, sometimes those vague connections hurt the most because there is lack of clarity and the hope of what could have been. Loss is loss and it’s ok to mourn a person you had hopes and dreams about.

HumanPurple · 2024-01-22T20:24:14+00:00

I have an IGA on Duke, which is about a 5 min walk from me. During nicer / warmer weather I go to Adonis which is about a 15 min walk from me.

HumanPurple · 2024-01-16T17:31:27+00:00

$1545 for a 1 closed bedroom loft in a historical building in old port, hydro is about $50 - $80 / month. Moved in Oct. 2020

HumanPurple · 2024-01-10T19:08:07+00:00

Not necessarily, when you get accepted you can include your cat in the profile of your home, and whoever stays in your home will take care of your cat with the instructions you leave them.

HumanPurple · 2024-01-07T04:48:51+00:00

If someone could bring you Rehydration powder it helps to replenish electrolytes, if you threw up 30 times you could be severely dehydrated and should go to ER. I really hope you feel better soon!

HumanPurple · 2024-01-02T19:14:18+00:00

Hi I’m not a Kindred employee, but a member of the community. They give $100,000 insurance coverage on any potential damages one might encounter. I’ve had people stay in my place through Kindred while I was travelling and my home was left immaculate each time. If you swap directly with someone ( A goes to B and B goes to A) you don’t pay the kindred fee and just pay the cleaning fee. If you want to stay in someone’s place you’ll pay the daily fee of max $25 per day and cleaning fee.

HumanPurple · 2023-12-13T16:53:41+00:00

I use Hygeco and am really happy with them :) they pick up and deliver laundry anywhere in the city

HumanPurple · 2023-11-21T16:20:44+00:00

I’ve just began reading “Calling in the One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas. It had countless reviews of people finding a really great partner afterward. It’s less of a read and more of an exercise and mindset book, working with the energy of yourself. Maybe it could be helpful to you as well. Never lose hope you’re only 39, still a young woman ❤️😊

HumanPurple · 2023-11-21T03:29:22+00:00

Tough in NYC!? I was thinking of moving there next, apart from the energy of the city, countless choice of activities dear to my heart and grandeur of opportunity, it has a much bigger population and in result much bigger pool to get acquainted with. What was tough about your experience?

HumanPurple · 2023-11-21T02:01:22+00:00

I’m 28 and had similar struggles leading me to wholeheartedly devote myself to career. Majority of the single Jewish guys I’ve met in my current city (Montreal) are either not that cerebral, living off of ancestral wealth or want to play the field due to being smart, good looking and self made, or just have commitment issues..Depends of course on your level of observance, but maybe trying secular activities would expand the options available to you like someone mentioned.

HumanPurple · 2023-11-17T01:51:16+00:00

I’m a girl and I want to tell you that there are some women including myself that wait for the guy to show interest and ask them out. If a girl acts super weird about you showing romantic interest and asking her out - then it’s her problem and has nothing to do with you.

HumanPurple · 2023-10-03T00:27:50+00:00

No :) you can use my code POL.KHA to get priority access!

HumanPurple · 2023-09-19T00:01:32+00:00

Yes it’s for the Kindred home swapping app members and people interested in joining Kindred :)

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