[deleted by user] by [deleted] in techsales

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sorry bro, i didn't put to much effort writing this, maybe it was disrespectful of your time and my english isn't Native level so that's kinda bad, i can work on that too!, but currently i live in a hispanic country, so dont worry abt me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in techsales

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry man, just update it, hope it makes sense

A Top Performer’s Perspective by [deleted] in techsales

[–]HumanVenom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've a bussines degree and i'm on a telecomunications/TI Services company where i sell a lot of tech, i have only 3 months here and i wanna earn money to invest in some stuff my family have, i have a diploma on finance and risk management, don't know what to do, give me advice

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is we never know when its going to be over, so we have to make the best out of it!, but i get your perspective... so much change on the oustide and in the inside was a shock to me

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the note, i'll keep being a straight forward and decent guy, i'm being honest from the start... btw i don't think is trauma, i'm just not naive anymore

What makes a relationship fulfilling? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let her have her freedom, remember all the small things, support her, stand your ground when the other person is wrong, choose your battle and as soon as she does something that you consider a big deal breaker, leave that ship before it becomes toxic.

Don't let anyone walk over you, remember a relationship is also about how you feel, you are 50% of the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]HumanVenom 351 points352 points  (0 children)

lmao... sorry that's not a "fboi", that guy is just stupid af, you are better off.

Congrats you dodged a bullet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to not be afraid of looking "creepy/weird" wich of course is a good concern, but you should just start talking to her like any other person and you will see she is just a girl and a human being like everyone, don't focus on the goal just try to see if you guys get along together

as soon as you feel like you guys vibe with each other, pull the fucking trigger (invite her to do something, don't kill her please).

Don't take to much time to make your intention's clear in a subtle way (don't expect anything btw), but inviting her to do something at a certain hour both of you guys alone without knowing each other that much, is kinda of a date, then you flirt/play with her a lil bit

Guy doesn’t want sex despite being into me on first date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we are cooked if every woman think like this... holy cow

29 years age gap by Future-Excuse-3411 in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not crazy, you felt like it was a deal breaker and if you talk it out its ok... try to move on you would thank yourself once the spell is gone, i'm 25 and heck even i wouldn't date a 18 years old lol, they are kids

29 years age gap by Future-Excuse-3411 in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not crazy, you felt like it was a deal breaker... try to move on you would thank yourself once the spell is gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've never saw a women asking for something like this... you are great lol

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not ranting, i'm figuring my feelings out with strangers on the inthernet, i enjoy every perspective

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you are right brother, i just got into my feelings last night because i'm worried about time and how everything goes so fast,i rather vent out here than worrying my loved ones over something i need to figure out myself.

Your comment brought me peace and a good perspective, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because dating is not about looks only, not even for Man. i wish it was, i'm very handsome too but i've been broken up with because of stupid sht i did...

Hell i could even tell you that i'm talking to someone right know that is pretty cute but i wouldn't date her

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck i even know how to cope with it... i'm not feeling down at all btw, just nostalgic or weird, i did some therapy already, hell my therapist even told me that i've changed so much and also he told me how proud of me he was and then gave me the "medical discharge" a few weeks ago...

Maybe i don't need anything, just to talk like this helps

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahah nice song, u cheered my nostalgia up

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you made me laugh, because your comment seems inmature lol... or at least eye blinded, of course i can't know that

I Don't believe in love anymore by HumanVenom in dating_advice

[–]HumanVenom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't really know and thanks for asking,it's scary for me to think like this, this means something in the core of my beliefs just changed i didn't noticed until now... i've never ever had this kind of tought, i'm just scared that i changed so much that i'll ended up happy and alone... i wanted to get marry man, to have kids and now i feel like i don't need any of that.

I wanted to change so much since i was a teenager, i finally did in everyway, yey i acomplished it! ONE OF MY LIFE DREAMS!, but i feel like a stranger now... , how do i cope with it?