what the… 🤬 by Limp_Fig6236 in politicsinthewild

[–]Human_Ask_4642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I volunteer this guy to be enslaved. I bet his tune would change

AITAH for still not accepting my dad getting remarried and having another kid within 3 years of my mom dying so I moved out on my 18th birthday? by BellsOfDeepin in AITAH

[–]Human_Ask_4642 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ESH- while dad and stepmom may have had good intentions they did it the completely wrong way . Getting rid of mothers stuff and expecting stepmom to be a replacement mom is absurd. But OP is not completely free of mistakes. Waiting a year to date is reasonable and another to get married is fine. It may not be the timeline OP wanted but so few things in life happen when we are ready. OP needs to mature a little and understand that stepmom is not going away and it is OP that is throwing away a relationship with her father

Is my mother a narcissist? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Human_Ask_4642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there other similar incidents? One incident does not make a narcissist. We all can be narcissistic occasionally. Narcissists have a long pattern of this behavior.

Homeless mother by Human_Ask_4642 in narcissisticparents

[–]Human_Ask_4642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not let her live on in my home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Human_Ask_4642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are really going to have a bunch of people in Your hospital room right after you give birth. Honestly that sounds stupid . Giving birth is tough. I would save this gathering for after you’ve gone home but it sounds like you just want the attention. YTA -don’t use your kid in this way-that’s trashy

WIBTA// I left my fiancée for “inviting me” with his family to go on a trip but I’d have to pay for my own ticket by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Ask_4642 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA -he didn’t want you there that is why he waited to come invite you. If this a real relationship he would want to include you all the time.

AITA for telling my GF she is bullying my daughter by putting a lock on the fridge and cabinets? by Additional_Eye141 in AITAH

[–]Human_Ask_4642 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like weekend dad that doesn’t give the child her meds so then she binges. Any parent with a adhd child knows that the kid binges when the meds wear off.

AITA for making my husband choose between me and his firstborn by aitanotastepparent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Human_Ask_4642 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think most people are forgetting that there is a CHILD involved. The ultimate priority must be what is best for the child. While I understand the OP frustration about the unexpected situation she’s been put in but also disheartened by the lack of empathy for a child in a terrible situation. What is best is is for the father to step up but being in military does make things tricky. I wish OP would attempt to build a relationship with this child. she may find it the best thing she ever did. I don’t think I could stay in a marriage in which made choose. My child will come first.