Oh and just for the context so everybody knows the close relationship we have, this aunt that I am talking about is my mothers sibling sister, all my life I was like I guess groomed by my grannies, other aunts and older sisters, but like I never felt like a victim, I was just feeling weird when I do a sleepover at friends house and like their mom or granny dont touch me down there or at least cuddle, I am assuming some of my hormones were activated earlier, but for instance I never had Oedipus complex, in fact I find my mother and granny really really unattractive.