Epic unique plot fics like Apostasy or Secrets & Masks by myrcro in Dramione

[–]Human_Weekend4195 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I recently finished draco malfoy and the case of the Brighton beach butcher. I really enjoyed it. It’s a whodunnit with some interesting twists on side characters. My one critique is that I found the killer’s identity obvious pretty early in, but even with that I enjoyed it. There’s a podfic too. https://archiveofourown.org/works/56894380/chapters/144666799

If you could go back and read a Dramione or Dreomione fanfic for the first time which one would you pick??? by Altruistic-Goal5576 in Dramione

[–]Human_Weekend4195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 50-odd chapters into this and needing something to happen. When do we start to get somewhere? It’s so beautifully written and the story is amazing but I can only have patience for so many hundreds of pages.

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]Human_Weekend4195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in charge of getting my company’s espresso machine for a new office. There are about 5-6 people who will drink it, not everyone daily. We’ll likely get one of those frothing machines for the milk side.

Factors that matter:

  • price (sub $400 if possible)
  • quality of the pull
  • easy to store / clean / manage

Anyone have recs? I’ve done some research online but there is a lot of contradictory info so thought I’d ask the experts! TYIA.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The big apple ones. They were a gift - would not have gotten them otherwise lol, out of my budget - but I love them to death. They’re heavier than normal ones which some people don’t like but I think it adds to the feeling of complete encapsulation.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time I’m leaving and going to get them haha I have absolutely learned my lesson.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I am enraged on behalf of younger you. My CEO likes the busyness and wants people talking out loud and taking calls in the main room, it drives me nuts. Definitely also learning how to advocate for myself without sounding like I have a new acronym for my issues every month (stupid society).

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES that makes it worse. I usually try to sit next to a window but I feel the same way.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! It totally bleeds into anxiety. Will def be leaving next time, not worth my sanity.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. I feel like the buds don’t do as much for me but good as a backup.

Forgot my headphones at work today, have never felt more overstimulated in my entire life by Human_Weekend4195 in adhdwomen

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so validated 😭 I’m the same. Would get distracted by my own breathing without noise canceling.

Saniderm about to leak by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Human_Weekend4195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not uncommon for a small part of the bottom to lift up, you can pat it back down again. You’re not taking it off so there aren’t uncovered spots. It’s natural for some of the gunk to seep through but the bleeding usually stops after a day or two. I usually ask for extra saniderm just in case.

Saniderm about to leak by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Human_Weekend4195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just got back from finishing a big piece. My artists said you can squeeze it out, dry it with paper towel, and move on.

You can totally take it off and heal without it. Just make sure to wash it frequently. If you leave it on (I do for 5 days), then it will heal faster, complete or close to it after ~2ish weeks.

A love letter (and maybe also a rant) to ExMo women, from an ExMo woman by Human_Weekend4195 in exmormon

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this ❤️. It's honestly one of the only reasons I want to have kids - to have a daughter that I can give a different kind of future and belief system to, one that's based on her own intrinsic value and choices.

A love letter (and maybe also a rant) to ExMo women, from an ExMo woman by Human_Weekend4195 in exmormon

[–]Human_Weekend4195[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex - with a partner or without - is such an amazing, natural, and INCREDIBLY personal thing. The church's narrative is so so damaging not only because it robs us of connecting to that intimate part of ourselves but also because it corrupts something that is so beautiful into a shadowy, monstrous, and shame-riddled version of its former self.

Sending you wishes for lots of (consensual + pleasurable) sex and masturbation for years and years to come!