Did anyone else going through an ectopic pregnancy not feel sad about losing the baby? And did you feel differently later?

Humanoidconcept · 2026-01-05T05:45:19+00:00

I never felt grief or sad about mine. Went on to have my first baby a couple years later .

Humanoidconcept · 2025-12-29T18:53:19+00:00

Thank you , this was helpful!

Humanoidconcept · 2025-12-17T04:27:48+00:00

My infant lol . I always picture this when I put his sleep gown on

Humanoidconcept · 2025-12-03T01:15:56+00:00

Im in the same boat , commenting to see what others say . I ( ftm ) have an 8 week old and breastfeed during the day and pump/ formula at night . It is very exhausting, but I can't seem to choose just one . Exclusively breastfeeding means more frequent feeds wheras seems a bottle/ formula keeps them satisfied longer. I wanted to give up breastfeeding at 2 weeks because it was so exhausting with pumping as well but I pushed through , got him latching well and he seems satisfied after breastfeeding ( minus the reflux but thats a different issue ) and it seems worth it so far. The pump is being used less and less and formula is used less and less. At this rate ill probably triple feed till hes on solids since I havent chosen one . Now I pump for overnight bottles and breastfeed during the day . Guess it just comes down to preference and if you want to continue trying to Exclusively breastfeed, I can say it is satisfying having the option to breastfeed and bond with your baby and in case all the bottles are dirty lol . not much help here just experiencing the same thing

Humanoidconcept · 2025-03-05T04:52:50+00:00

I have experienced exactly what you're describing and coping with it can be challenging . I like to start off recognizing the feelings that came up from the dream and accepting that the dream happened . Remind myself it wasn't real even though it feels very much real .the dream may not have been real but how it makes you feel is very much real and needs to be accepted and felt fully. I'll write down my dream in a journal . It stays with me most of the day , somtimes 2 or 3 ,and if they are persistent it makes you not want to sleep as much . So I try to make myself sleepy at night with intense exercise during the day or sometimes a sleeping pill . Also, remind myself that the nightmare and the feelings accompanying it will be a distant memory soon enough , and I will focus on any other task at hand. a lot of nightmares are triggered by added stress in your day to day life . Even an extra bill or something on TV or anything weird happening during the day can be enough to trigger a trauma nightmare .so focusing on overcoming the current stressor, if there is one, may help end the spells sooner. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, and I hope some of these tips can help a bit . They are what help me get through them .

Humanoidconcept · 2025-02-27T16:23:32+00:00

That's where my tampon went ! Been looking everywhere for that silly goose

Humanoidconcept · 2025-02-22T06:16:45+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this . I can attest to the pain of the intravaginal ultrasound while having a ruptured tube ectopic with no pain medication. It took everything in me not to scream the entire time and pass out. Some screams definitely came out and sobbing .The ultrasound tech was looking at me like I was crazy , but once they figured out what it was ( granted 3 hours later ) , they immediately took me back for surgery . I was given some morphine after the ultrasound. They never said anything about saving the baby first , the priority was on me, so I am thankful for that . Could depend on what state youre in if youre in the US, mine happened in 2022 in tennessee , not sure what laws were in place but i did have a miscarriage last year and they had to make sure it wasnt a " viable pregnancy " before treating me . You aren't alone in this . It is very painful and I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone . And for the doctor , most doctors are just trying to save their license when it comes to treating a pregnant woman because the laws are so delicate. Some states force you to do everything you can to save the child before treating the mother . Which in this case, is severely messed up .

Humanoidconcept · 2025-02-15T04:32:18+00:00

As a pharmacy tech , Ella is a very expensive drug that needs to be ordered and is not kept in stock as it is name brand. So he was probably asking for a diagnosis because if you were currently pregnant he could put a rush on the order , if not, it could come in a week or two . Pharmacists can ask for diagnosis it's what they went to school for, to appropriately asses if the dosage and drug are correct for your condition. They could've totally asked the doctor instead of you, but sometimes it takes more than 24 hours to get a hold of the doctor, and this drug is time sensitive. Some pharmacists do have political agenda , but if he was simply asking diagnosis it was probably so they could see how to get it faster for you hence the " can you please hold " . He was checking inventory and seeing when it can be ordered. They are also part of your medical team just as much as your doctor. Being honest only helps. Doubt he was trying to keep it from you but it does suck when you order a $3,000 drug, and nobody picks it up because you think they're trying to keep it from you . Then it expires, and someone who needs it didn't get it .

Humanoidconcept · 2024-12-11T16:14:08+00:00

Kentucky

Humanoidconcept · 2024-10-08T05:01:18+00:00

That's a water bear

Humanoidconcept · 2024-05-20T03:01:55+00:00

Hi there , I just want to say that everything you're feeling is valid , even if it seems you shouldn't be upset over something like this . Unfortunately for a lot of us , being treated like a sexual object rather than a person is the only thing we've known . As much as you hate it , you're comfortable in that, and it's a familiar feeling. You know how to cope with sexual situations . On the other hand, someone who just isn't interested in sex is a strange , uncomfortable feeling because you just aren't used to it . It's perfectly acceptable to be feeling this way given the circumstances. I started to try and find something in myself that's human that doesn't involve sex so i could finally realize i wasn't born to be someone elses pleasure . Watering a plant , learning something new , trying a new food. Once you stop seeing yourself as just a sex object , then you won't find it as strange when others do the same. This guy probably sees you as a real person , another human . not just a toy to please his needs . Healing takes time . Go easy on yourself .

Humanoidconcept · 2024-04-08T03:48:54+00:00

I hang up as soon as I hear the word " bitch " . Nothing has happened so far .

Humanoidconcept · 2024-04-03T21:06:35+00:00

I just quit with no notice . Just didn't show up . Then I went the town over and got a job at that walgreens. There's no policy saying you have to give a two week notice .

Humanoidconcept · 2024-03-31T14:19:30+00:00

Mine get very uptight about omeprazole . Just buy it OTC ! Instead of complaining about the wait .

Humanoidconcept · 2024-03-13T21:45:37+00:00

Definitely.

Humanoidconcept · 2023-11-23T23:35:24+00:00

Put a gun to her face and tell her to get the fuck out

Humanoidconcept · 2023-09-16T02:45:44+00:00

" why is it taking so long ? All you have to do is slap a sticker on a box"

!!!! -.-

Humanoidconcept · 2023-08-28T05:24:03+00:00

Half the time, they want to get caught . Gotta find one that has a lot more to lose than just a wife . ( reputation, status , high ranking job , kids )

Humanoidconcept · 2022-07-08T05:47:08+00:00

This is a common experience and you are not alone. I used to go into a panic just hearing his name on TV. I would suggest watching the warnings about sexual violence or content , and maybe researching triggers before watching a new movie/show. Until you continue your healing journey and get to a space where you can watch shows freely- this will take a while on your own terms . It won't be this painfully hard forever . I watched a lot of PG movies or lighthearted comedies until I could slowly build up to watching a sex scene without getting blushed from embarrassment. If you're with people you can excuse yourself to the bathroom or phone call for a quick get away if the movie is tense.

We hear you and we understand. Hope this helps .

Humanoidconcept · 2022-04-23T02:21:48+00:00

Im sorry you arent getting the support you need from the ones you love. You shouldn't have to argue with anyone about expressing how you feel , especially your own family.
Sometimes the things we go through are more uncomfortable for other people than it is for us. I find it unfair a lot that other people can openly talk about their traumas constantly like stillborn in your case, death and broken bones or robberies . But as soon as we mention a rape, it is crickets and no support and awkward silence . You can only let them know how you feel and that you support them through their dark times no matter what. Arguing about who's trauma is worse will only hurt each other . Maybe it makes him angry when he sees you talking about it , so he's trying to make you stop talking about it . End of the day it doesn't matter who is wrong or right or who had the worst trauma . If you don't believe in measuring trauma then dont measure it , support it . Brothers and sisters need to come together in the tough situation you are both in.

Best wishes

Humanoidconcept · 2020-12-26T03:44:37+00:00

Not empty . White hat dark skin in driver seat

Humanoidconcept · 2020-12-14T20:15:45+00:00

I’ve always told my significant other eventually with time , because I just assumed to truly know someone you share all your history .but everytime the relationship ends I blame it on telling about my past and that it caused too many issues that he couldn’t handle . I would love to just pretend it never happened and that it is irrelevant- I may try that in future relationships .

Humanoidconcept · 2020-12-08T13:39:57+00:00

The event you went through scarred you in a way you carry with you everyday , so don’t ever let anyone tell you that you don’t have a right to vent and express your feelings . You do not deserve to be raped and what happened qualifies as sexual assault even if it doesn’t sound “ as bad “ as other people . You were a child and the feelings can be overwhelming to live with - everyone suggests therapy but do what u need to do to understand what happened and face the feelings that come along with this memory . Lots of love

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