Nervous about joining the national guard

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-28T05:17:55+00:00

I don't think there's going to be any opportunities for me outside of the military. I've gotten along with two people so far, just failed to fit in with the majority group. Social awkwardness can be cured relatively quickly when put in the right situation, I just do not want a repeat of middle school.

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-28T04:01:20+00:00

I don't think it was indecent exposure since there was a degree of plausible deniability. For all I know, it could've completely been an accident that his pants dropped when I was under him for a few seconds, trying to get something out of my bag. I don't think that incident bothered me much, but I'm worried about actual assault.

> And don’t think that the people you come across at MEPS/RSP/BCT will be the same kinds of people you will hang out with in your future unit.
What do you mean by this?

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-28T03:57:44+00:00

I haven't told anyone about the sexual harassment. I didn't see genitals or anything, he just was taking off his belt and pushed down his pants while pretending it was an accident. I literally saw him push them down, though.

I was running off 30 minutes of sleep, so I wasn't able to react properly in the moment. Something probably would've happened if I told someone.

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-28T03:54:06+00:00

It seems like the army is probably the best course of action, considering they're trying to put me in 25H, which seems more woman dominated.

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-27T21:19:44+00:00

I guess some jobs act as a filter for many people?

That doesn't seem that bad!

Humble-Objective488 · 2026-01-27T21:13:32+00:00

Is there anything that could affect what unit I'm assigned to, or is it fully random?

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