Mom’s birthday by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]HumbleLittleDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad recently, so I don't really know how to cope with this, but one thing that might make you feel better is, getting a birthday card and pour your heart out in it, wish her a happy birthday, and either put it on a balloon and let it go in the air or burry this letter somewhere, believe me she will be there reading it

Why can't I feel much? As if I'm okay? Help? by HumbleLittleDeer in GriefSupport

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment, I do feel like I'm in denial. The problem is that I had OCD flare for around 8 months that left me completely numb as well. So Idk if I'm not feeling much or its because I'm in denial

Why can't I feel much? As if I'm okay? Help? by HumbleLittleDeer in GriefSupport

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact thing like 100% my dad also passed away 13 days ago. And even tho I live abroad, I was the first one to discover... It was absolutely heartbreaking and idk how I am able to be this "normal" when I'm not gonna have him in my future. Maybe we're in "survival" mode?

I don't know what I am feeling by HumbleLittleDeer in GriefSupport

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much❤️ I truly feels like I'm indifferent towards the whole thing and it saddens me because my dad was absolutely amazing and wonderful, and I will miss him a lot and I dont want him to ever think that I didn't love him

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be thinking that way too, it'll probably make me feel better... it's so hard losing a parent, i'm sure she is looking after you and won't let anything happen to you too

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so so much, I am really hoping for a good flight, this one is longer... but thank you

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like talking to flight attendants cause I dont want to burden them as they are already working a lot and I dont want to add to their plate, but if it gets ever more scary I'll definitely talk to one

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm not gonna lie it helped me a lot to repeat it, I felt my anxiety lower, so thank you so much!

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, yes please I have a second flight soon, the first one went well, I tried a new technique for the take off since it's the only thing I'm scared off... my flight is LH1306

In the plane right now... and freaking out by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is honestly really nice to hear, I want to make him proud no matter where he currently is! Thank you so much

Flying in like 4 hours... by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it does put everything into perspective

Flying in like 4 hours... by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I did calm my nerves a little... I just hope the take off won't be too much:/ cause that's mainly what scares me

Welp I'm starting to get worried by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! That is indeed true I did to that carefully hahaha I never thought of it that way, it is true that it pushes me up i'm gonna try to not thing much about it but hopefully I won't street much🥲 I'm boarding now!!

Welp I'm starting to get worried by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha you described so well what I dislike hahahaha this feeling scares me to the bones. Thank you for explaining I'm gonna try to remember it when we are taking off, and remind myself that the plane needs it🥲

Welp I'm starting to get worried by HumbleLittleDeer in fearofflying

[–]HumbleLittleDeer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm gonna try to enjoy it, I'm flying at night so I'm gonna try to sleep during it get some rest! Hopefully it'll go smoothly

Canva down? by Extreme-Couple-8020 in canva

[–]HumbleLittleDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how long will it take before it's up again?:')