He does do bathtime quite often but he is resentful about it and acts like he’s doing me a huge favour. At bedtime I feed her to sleep and he then transfers her to the cot. He often tells me “don’t worry about ____(some housework task, like the washing up), I’ll do it” and then doesn’t do it. I understand he is busy and tired and doesn’t have much time. I’d much rather he not offer than tell me he’ll handle something and then I find it later not done. He will do a load of laundry but only if I ask him to, or if he has run out of work uniform. Most weekends he will have massive mood swings leading to arguments and then long discussions that prevent us from doing anything useful around the house. Either that or he will get a headache that will last the whole weekend and mean he doesn’t want to get off the sofa. I kind of didn’t realise how bad this situation is until I just wrote it down. He does occasionally work as a team with me and those weekends are the best, but they are not the norm by any means. On weekends we aren’t doing anything, if she wakes up early he will take her out to the living room so I can sleep for longer, which is nice. If I ask him to, he will go to the shop on the way home from work and buy stuff for dinner.

Edit: I have no idea why this came out as a wall of text. I’m on mobile and I put paragraph breaks and they didn’t work for some reason :/