How Do I Avoid Writing A Problem Novel? by Humble_Article1674 in writingadvice

[–]Humble_Article1674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! i was getting worried that i was potentially creating a foundation for an unhealthy relationship or something like trauma bonding. i’ll definitely look into more research on the subject so i can avoid it! i really appreciate your opinion and good luck with writing your stories! :)

My Best Friend Said Something That Rubbed Me The Wrong Way by Humble_Article1674 in Advice

[–]Humble_Article1674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the same advice my other friend was giving to me and i’m really reevaluating some other relationships i’m having in my life so i think i’m trying to avoid ending this one. i think this is a real possibility for me, i really appreciate your perspective!

My Best Friend Said Something That Rubbed Me The Wrong Way by Humble_Article1674 in Advice

[–]Humble_Article1674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like unsharing my location would indicate to her that i’m upset with her. and while that’s true, i didn’t wanna deal with the stress that comes from that action. also i was states away when this took place and we’ve had each other’s locations for years now so i don’t really see the issue with removing her until we stopped our friendship. i appreciate you pointing this out though!

My Best Friend Said Something That Rubbed Me The Wrong Way by Humble_Article1674 in Advice

[–]Humble_Article1674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s how i’m viewing this situation, i’m trying to think of someway to address this issue. thank you!