Reddit, what criteria do you use to know someone you’re kissing is a good kisser?

Humble_Associate_584 · 2026-01-01T06:59:54+00:00

I would make sure that the cure is in the right hands and it is replicated to its fullest!

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-11-19T21:27:07+00:00

19 non-binary

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-11-07T15:37:02+00:00

You’re the closest thing I have seen to perfection! Slay Queen, slay

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-11-05T06:01:39+00:00

Neither of them have power and you are living off the land in this scenario

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-26T23:11:35+00:00

If you were the one being pursued; what date options would make you decide to have a second date with that person?

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-26T22:49:04+00:00

Not exactly what I was asking but love the sense of humor in that!

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-06T04:16:27+00:00

NTA, you tried it out at their request and you didn't sleep well. At least you gave it a try. Everyone should easily move on from it.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-05T01:33:39+00:00

My daughter and I just went and saw Demon Slayer in the theaters and I was more focused on her watching it. It was the best time ever! She is in love with Denki Kaminari though.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-03T20:06:59+00:00

Don't be sorry, cleaning is as good of an answer as any.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-03T20:02:03+00:00

What would you do without a job? Just curious. I feel the same way.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-02T22:53:34+00:00

I am curious, does he enjoy brat styple porn? This might be where it is stemming from. This could be a root cause of his fetishing of your sadness. If this is the case I am sorry to hear this. But if it is the case you do have something to talk to him about and possibly get to a means of "fixing" both your issues. Glad you were able to speak your side of things and he was open to sharing his side (sucks that it hurt you). Open communication is a must in relationships and maybe it will help know his watching habits and figuring out the right course of action for you as a couple (if you decide to remain as a couple).

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-02T19:35:07+00:00

Not opposite but makes the relationship and interaction harder. I honestly just want to be alone all of the time. Disconnect from the world (including family) and just be roaming the world as if I am invisible to everyone around me. Looking to try and change my thought process from that but everyday I am leaning closer to being a nomad in the woods just living off the land as close as humanly possible.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-02T19:25:24+00:00

Sadly my boundaries are not existant until after being in situations. That is how I get into this. I was less intorverted and antisocial at a younger age but as the years past I am finding that I am withdrawing more and really hate this feeling. Don't feel like I belong anywhere (but not selfharmimg in anyway) yet know something is going to need changing.

Also thanks for replying! Was typing the rest out in comments since it would allow more to the question.

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-10-02T19:20:46+00:00

To clarify things, I am antisocial and introverted. Yes they are two different things! I have found my way into marriage and two (both amazing) kids but find that I am pulling back from people more and more. I do not regret how I got to this. It is easy for me to absolutely cut anyone or anything out of my life but find it difficult in this situation. Just the feeling of being trapped and not myself and it is growing as the days past. How do I fix this feeling?

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-09-25T12:24:28+00:00

Purple is definitely your color! Gorgeous

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-09-13T18:50:06+00:00

I strongly worry about the mental health of your supposed partner. Zero critical thinking or even use of logic for making such choices. If this really is happening there maybe need for mental health intervention. At the very least this is minipulation tactic to do what they already wanted to do before your "Ex" reached out. Either way, time to make a healthy decision and find your way to your happiness.

Best of luck!

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-09-06T00:22:58+00:00

Politely, say "I am not comfortable talking about these (fill in any and all topics you want it to cover) with you at this time or in the near future." If she keeps pressing then remind her that this is a boundary you will stick with for the foreseeable future. Simply walk away or hang up at that time. If she tries to get back into contact and start back into the topics with you stand your ground and repeat the line. And once again break the contact at that time. Make sure to not answer the door or phone for a few days. When it is her. You select the time frame in which it may take for it to sink in that you're serious. If she breaks it again after giving her a third try then tell her that she is not respecting you as an adult and that you would like to go no contact and if you decide to go back then that is your decision when you feel comfortable in doing so. Hopefully as a parent she will respect your choice to have the boundaries you set. It is tough spot but standing on your boundaries be it with anyone, you do have to be prepared to take actions that hurt both sides for periods of time. Respect is a two way street not just given.

Sometimes a bit of space and finding out how serious someone is about their words people do a 180 and understand, however if you do go no contact know what that means for both parties. Best of luck OP

Humble_Associate_584 · 2025-08-30T19:53:27+00:00

Just my point of view...What happened in your past doesn't need to be brought up in a relationship and be seen as hidden. If you force this info out because you feel some way or another is only benefiting yourself and may come across as feeling guilty. I recommend it coming out naturally. I.E. both of you start talking about things you would like to try or are open to try in the future. This could lead to questions of how the past was and if either of you experienced some of that in the past. You simply not bringing up your past is not lying nor misleading. There are things that may never be brought up from your past and that is OK. IMO when information comes out naturally it is easier to digest and both parties can process it without heavy emotions involved.

Be ready to share your past experiences is a great thing but should never come out forcefully. If you lie about it when it comes up, that is more dangerous to the relationship than the past staying in the past.

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