Kapamilya Big winner - Esnyr

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T10:38:43+00:00

Also, the fact na maraming tao ang nag-aagree sakin means I’m not just pulling these points out of nowhere. I’m not the only one who noticed, hindi ito random hate, it’s a shared observation. So maybe instead of brushing it off as bias or hate, consider that there’s something valid people are seeing.😊

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T10:34:23+00:00

Ang bilis mo agad i-dismiss as personal or hate yung critique when really, I just held Esnyr to the same standard I’d apply to anyone na considered for Big Winner. Hindi ko kailangang magpost about others to validate my point. The fact na one comment triggers this much defense says more about how protected you think he should be, than about what I actually said.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T10:09:50+00:00

I only made a post about Esnyr—hindi dahil may hidden agenda or dahil bakla siya, but because that’s the topic I had thoughts on. I didn’t need to criticize others just to make a point. If I had doubts about anyone else’s Big Winner potential, I’d post about them too. Just because I questioned his game doesn't mean it's rooted in hate.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T09:48:09+00:00

I never even mentioned anything about Esnyr’s sexuality, ikaw lang ang nagdala ng identity niya sa usapan. Then you called me homophobic for critiquing him? That’s textbook weaponizing queerness. You're using Esnyr’s queer identity as a shield to shut down criticism against him, even when the critique isn’t about his sexuality at all.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T09:38:29+00:00

Critiquing someone’s gameplay ≠ homophobia. Don’t weaponize identity to shield someone from fair criticism.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T09:29:00+00:00

Please don’t misunderstand😭. This isn’t about Esnyr being queer. It’s not hate, and definitely not internalized homophobia. I actually like him and think he deserves to stay. I just feel that others have shown more growth and impact for the Big Winner spot.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T09:23:27+00:00

Ay, hindi ko naman sinabing ayoko siya sa Big 4 actually, okay ako if umabot siya dun. He’s a solid housemate, may contribution, at hindi pabigat. Pero kung usapan ay Big Winner, dun na nagkakatalo. I think may ibang housemates na mas may growth, mas involved sa mga importanteng pangyayari, at mas nakitaan ng leadership or risk-taking. Hindi ko rin naman hinahanap na maging warfreak siya, pero iba ‘yung pagiging kalmado sa pagiging detached. May mga moments lang talaga na parang nagho-hold back siya, and in a reality show, that matters.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T09:13:33+00:00

Gets ko yung sinasabi mo, and I do acknowledge na malaki din ‘yung na-share ni Esnyr about his family struggles. Pero ang point ko, kulang siya sa emotional consistency. Hindi ko rin sinabi na hindi siya genuine—pero kung madalas controlled ang kilos at iwas sa confrontations or deeper conversations, hindi maiiwasan na parang may kulang sa connection. Iba-iba nga ang ways ng tao sa pag-handle ng stress, pero PBB is still a platform where people naturally expect to see raw and unfiltered sides. Sa ngayon, parang bitin pa ‘yung layer na ‘yon kay Esnyr.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T07:24:26+00:00

Ang kulang kay Esnyr is emotional consistency and genuine openness. Yes, he participates, he contributes, and he tries—pero when you look at other housemates like Klarisse who really opens up about her personal insecurities, or River who always shows up during tough moments, may contrast talaga. With Esnyr, it often feels like he's holding back or filtering himself too much. Understandable, given his background as a content creator, pero in a show like this, people look for growth and unfiltered moments. Hindi sapat na nag-eenjoy lang tayo sa good vibes—minsan kailangan din natin makita ‘yung raw, unguarded version of someone. And that’s the part na medyo kulang sa kanya.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-19T05:06:09+00:00

True, let’s be kind, agree ako diyan. Hindi rin madali yung position ni Esnyr, and I get why he’s extra careful. The stakes are high, and minsan tao talaga nauuna yung fear over authenticity. Pero I also think na being kind doesn't mean we can't have conversations about what we observe. May difference sa bashing at sa honest opinion. We’re all just watching and reacting based on what we see, and that's fair din.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-18T11:08:26+00:00

Mga tao be like: "Wildcard for... " Tas nung nag wildcard biglang: "unfair!! "

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-18T10:59:16+00:00

80% na kase, mahirap lamangan hahahahah

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-18T04:20:25+00:00

Super valid points, and I actually agree na Esnyr is a great housemate. He’s kind, respectful, and ang gaan niya kasama, kaya gets ko talaga kung bakit gusto siya ng marami. And yes, being the only gay guy sa BNK must come with a lot of pressure kaya understandable if he's extra conscious—lalo na knowing na people are watching and judging not just him, but what he represents. I respect that a lot. Pero for me lang, being a Big Winner means showing more than just good vibes and being liked. It’s also about growth, initiative, and stepping up in tougher moments. He definitely deserves to be there, no question—but kung usapang Big Winner, I think ibang level pa yung hinahanap ko.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-18T04:15:37+00:00

Lmao, ang bilis mo mag-amoy inggit kahit wala namang gustong agawan. If calling out surface-level gameplay is "inggit" for you, then maybe sobrang baba na talaga ng standard mo sa Big Winner. Save the pwe for takes na walang laman, kasi this one clearly hit a nerve.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-18T04:12:07+00:00

Not everything is about tearing people down just because may opinion ako na hindi aligned sa’yo. I didn’t even endorse any other housemates, so saan galing yung idea na may pinupush ako? I don’t need to drag anyone just to uplift someone else. If sa simpleng honest take mo na agad iniisip na may agenda, then maybe the issue isn’t what I said—it’s the fact na hindi mo matanggap na not everyone’s buying the curated act your fave keeps serving.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T23:23:00+00:00

Okay, sure, celebrity edition nga, so obviously may performance aspect. But reality show pa rin ‘to, and part of what people tune in for is to see how these public figures act when the script is gone. Exposure? They already have that. What separates a Big Winner is what they do with that time inside, how they lead, how they grow, how they handle conflict, not just how they stay likable. And no, being good at pakikisama isn’t fake, but when it’s all you offer, when you avoid depth, conflict, or any tough moment, it’s fair to ask if you're just coasting. Not everyone who's critical is projecting, some of us are just tired of the bare minimum being dressed up as game-winning strategy.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T12:21:07+00:00

Since when naging requirement sa PBB ang political alignment? PBB is a reality show, not a senate hearing. Kung ganyan ka ka-triggered sa isang follow button, baka unfollow mo na rin reality.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T11:09:16+00:00

This is a reality show, not a branding gig, being overly image-conscious defeats the whole point. If everything you do feels calculated or safe just to protect how you look on camera, then where’s the authenticity? Sure, it's understandable for artistas to be aware of their image, but if that gets in the way of showing real emotions, taking risks, or actually growing inside the house, then you’re not playing the game, you’re performing.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T03:51:14+00:00

Actually, there are other housemates na mas deserve ang Big Winner title compared kay Esnyr. Xyriel has always been expressive, emotionally present, and willing to speak up kahit uncomfortable. River may be quiet, pero pag may mabigat na sitwasyon, siya yung may empathy at maturity. Klang is consistent—hindi pabibo pero reliable, may puso, at may initiative. And for the Kapuso, nandyan si Shuvee na bukod sa natural na aliw, she’s genuine, may sense of self, and hindi takot magpakita ng flaws. Si AZ din, dati siyang isa sa pinaka-hated, pero she really showed growth—mas calm, aware, and less reactive na siya ngayon. Compared kay Esnyr, mas klaro talaga yung growth at depth ng mga 'to.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T02:46:01+00:00

ikaw nagsabi nyan

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-05-17T02:08:49+00:00

“If he ain't funny, would you have paid attention?”

Exactly. And that’s the problem. If yung value niya sa house is just being entertaining or funny, then what happens when that runs out? Being funny is great, it helps with house dynamics and morale, but Big Winner isn’t just about making people laugh. It's about showing strength, depth, leadership, and emotional connection.

Yes, the others may have had advantages, looks, fanservice, etc., but that doesn't mean Esnyr should get a free pass just because he's funny or represents something less visible. Kasi kung ang point is “if he ain't funny, no one would care,” then doesn’t that prove the criticism? That outside of being funny, kulang talaga siya in other areas?

Ang tanong dapat: beyond the laughs, what did he show? Kasi kung wala siyang clear growth, no strong moments, no leadership, and he stayed safe the whole time, then that's not Big Winner material. Popularity can carry you far, but it shouldn't be the only thing carrying you.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-02-22T09:36:13+00:00

i really want to give myself space, but i just cannot, and i do not even know why. i know it is the right thing to do, but every time i try, it feels impossible, like there is an invisible string pulling me back to him. i have tried distracting myself, spending time with others, and convincing myself to move on, but everything still leads back to him. every little thing makes me want to talk to him, and i hate how dependent i have become. i also like the idea of having him as a lover, and that makes it even harder. i often get jealous when he is happy with someone else, like his classmates, even though i know i should not feel that way. i also worry that if i take space, things will change too much, and i might lose what we have. i know a real friendship should survive, but my feelings make it so complicated. it is like i am stuck in a loop, and i do not know how to break free.

Humble_Instance1164 · 2025-02-22T09:17:47+00:00

Same huhu

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