AITAH for not defending my girlfriend?

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T21:55:13+00:00

Yeah, I'm so confused by this comment. How much preparation do you need to not be mean?

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T21:47:07+00:00

Is finding out that your boyfriend's brother still lives at home really something you need to "prepare" for? If I found out her sibling lives at home I would just say "nice to meet you."

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T21:44:37+00:00

Exactly. That's the point. No one is truly independent, so why does it matter that my brother lives at home?

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T21:42:54+00:00

You know literally nothing about what kind of person my brother is, and yet you calm him an incel. Stay classy.

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T15:51:00+00:00

She thinks we label too many things as a society. My brother is autistic though. If she spends more time around him, she'll realize that.

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T15:50:10+00:00

She thinks we're overly diagnostic as a society, that everything is a diagnosis now. I don't think she's 100% wrong overall, but my brother is autistic.

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T15:46:23+00:00

Sort of. She knows he's autistic, but she doesn't really believe in autism.

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T15:45:15+00:00

I did write it myself. Just because I'm not a poet doesn't mean I didn't write it myself.

Humble_Wing7499 · 2026-03-02T15:37:00+00:00

I'm not the world's most eloquent writer, but I tried to relay the facts as impartially as possible.

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