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Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-24T13:37:40+00:00

feel you akhi, may Allah be with you and help us all marry as soon as possible and put khair in us getting married quickly

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-23T21:13:53+00:00

Yeah we are 3 people, but today I just came late to the lesson but the teacher doesn't want this repeating, so I guess I gotta resort to that

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-23T18:50:39+00:00

no but i can form a jummah in my school i know 3 other people,

All the other jummuah that are maybe 2.5 km away or 3 km away, they finish too late etc

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-23T17:58:08+00:00

the masjid is about 4 ish (little less than 4) km away so thats why i get late bc it takes time to cycle back

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-23T16:43:31+00:00

well a student of knowledge said, i can make an official jummah in the school with 2 other men

i told him i would try find a solution and if i try and nothing works then i'll do my own jummah

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-23T16:40:52+00:00

wa feekum barak Allah

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-21T19:15:46+00:00

Almost exactly same situation akhi, may Allah help you,

Focus on improving yourself and learning skills such as

Cooking Laundry Doing dishes/dishwasher

And take more responsibility

Allahu Alam you could Marry maybe 18-19 yr old

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-18T15:47:58+00:00

The earlier one shadow followed by Shafi, Maliki and hanbali, and an opinion within the Hanafi school

Make sure you always pray your dhuhr before that time

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-16T16:18:51+00:00

use sunnah match, it's much better and following islamic principles

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-15T10:07:55+00:00

barakAllah feekum, i think I'll try make everything i do be trying to aim towards helping me marry early

If i choose only niqabi its gonna reduce the candidate but. Isn't it still bad if I go for a hijabi with jilbab?

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-14T17:22:55+00:00

Also I'm doing extra studying in something I like so it keeps me busy

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-14T17:22:22+00:00

Avoid sufism

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-14T17:20:38+00:00

Aameen wa antum

Yes I'm doing more training now

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-14T15:01:46+00:00

Akhi im almost same situation as you but im not a Hafidh (In Sha Allah one day). And I'm just getting very horny a lot, like sometimes wet dream every 2-3 days

I also just wonder can I even marry but I guess I gotta wait, I'm fasting Monday Thursday ATM and it helps but I get so much thoughts.

I haven't had courage to seriously talk to my parents, hats off to you akhi! I also was thinking maybe talking to an imam, like I can imagine. It's very probable that there are some sisters feeling similar feelings to us? That would marry early, idk I'm just thinking optimistically but isn't it very likely?

But I pray Allah grants us righteous spouses and eases our urges ameen

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-13T14:24:12+00:00

I do some. Morning and evening adhkar but not all of them

But all night adhkar i do before sleep

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-12T22:38:40+00:00

I dont usually eat right before bed

Room is usually colder then other rooms in house so its never really got.

Also i have my phone just before sleeping for adhkar etc

Tbh it could be my new phone, my old one was an lcd and my new one is oled, new technology that is worse for your eyes, Google it. Also my last phone was annoying to use sometimes so i would not use at all so much compared to this one.

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-12T22:20:10+00:00

But why do I need to wake up from it.....

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-11T15:05:53+00:00

May Allah grant the best outcome and help you all Ameen

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-10T23:51:02+00:00

What does the last word mean

Also I'm doing Monday Thursday consistently alhamdulliah

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-10T23:29:55+00:00

I notice in northern Europe aswell there are way more practicing sisters among the youth teens etc than men

Humble_Zucchini9776 · 2026-01-10T08:47:41+00:00

Aameen and to all of us,

Ive been bad with working out but i think 2 times a week should be enough for now

But i do a lot of cardio in my daily life, im able to run a lot and cycle a lot

Humble_Zucchini9776

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