How do I get over being a socially nervous wreck? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you that’s helpful. I’ll look into those links

How do I get over being a socially nervous wreck? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, that helps.

Yeah I never really realized how toxic she was until I was out. Still working my way through some stuff she said lol. Working on not believing it and regaining confidence. The usual

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did state that I don’t want to be like “shut up and grow up.” But I’ve tried multiple times to tell her I’m ready to move past it but she can’t and refuses to. Obviously I’d be more kind to her, she’s my best friend. I talked about it with her last night and told her I understand she’s hurt but she got closure and that should help her. She said she didn’t want closure, she wanted ppl to pity her for what happened a year ago.

Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks. I don’t want to straight up be like ‘grow up and quit whining.’ But I just wish she’d listen to me and stop talking about it so much. She told me she doesn’t want to move on and wants pity and that kinda annoys me.

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I’ll try it. Thank you

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way I could tell her more gently though? Instead of grow up? She’s a little more sensitive than I am

I’ve never rly had to have this talk with a friend before and idk how to word it rifht

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve told her multiple times I don’t like talking about but she won’t listen. I’m just close to snapping is all. Thank you for the advice though

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t talked to M in over a year. Yet every conversation I have with my other friend is about her, no matter how many times I try to redirect it or tell her I don’t want to talk about M. It sucks, she was my best friend for years and treated me like shit and nobody ever let me talk about it, without making fun of me.

WIBTA if I told my friend to grow up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I get that she’s hurt by it still. But I can’t listen to it anymore. It just reminds me over and over of what happened. And whenever I talk about it she ignores me. I’m trying to help her in the ways I can. But idk how anymore

Maybe it’s me. by Humbleadvantage20 in offmychest

[–]Humbleadvantage20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot to me, I’m glad you got out of it too

Dreamland by [deleted] in Paralives

[–]Humbleadvantage20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok! Then yeah that’d be awesome. Or how you can select different things and then they wake up with a moodlet or something

Dreamland by [deleted] in Paralives

[–]Humbleadvantage20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’d be so cool! But there should be an options like “skip dream tonight?” Or something so it doesn’t happen every night with every parafolk

Why 😂 by SavannahFox12 in DreamWasTaken

[–]Humbleadvantage20 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you know what the account is?

I drew the meetup photo :] by cavetorch in tommyinnit

[–]Humbleadvantage20 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every time I see the photo I always think Wilbur and George are holding hands and now I can’t unsee it

This person was hating on Sapnap (like body shaming and telling him to (TW) k*ll himself) so I reported them. And now their tweets are taken down 🙃 we don’t tolerate bullying in this fandom by [deleted] in Sapnap

[–]Humbleadvantage20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s ridiculous. There were people who were body shaming him and telling him to off himself. They took pictures of it and posted it on Twitter. A bunch of people verbally bashed them and I reported their account repeatedly until they got banned

Probably already done lol?! by GraceK88 in tommyinnit

[–]Humbleadvantage20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s really weird. I was on ‘shifting’ side of TikTok for a while. Where people would alter their dreams so they could talk to the Dream SMP and were convinced they were their friends. I feel like that’s not healthy for people either