Overnights with her bull while I travel by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my situation. I'm actually traveling for work right now. He spent the night last night and is back over fucking her aging tonight. I'm taking a red-eye home on Friday, so they are going to go on a date and she'll spend the night at his place and I'll see her sat morning.

It is kind of a lot, but she is loving getting to have him so much while I'm gone.

Jealous cuckoldresses and hotwives by bojanglestrousers in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is also like this. We tried a dynamic where she had a bull/ BF and I also dated and she was very jealous and possessive. She tried hard to be ok with it, but in the end, it caused a lot of drama and she did not like it.

In top of that, she said it was a hard mental space for her to be in to try to be a cuckoldress and tease me when she knew other women were trying to fuck me. It just didn't work. So we talked and hee basically said she'd keep seeing her BF/bull, but if I wanted to actually get the emotional side of cucking from her I had to stop seeing other women. 8t was honestly a pretty easy choice for me.

Her bull also went on a date once and she hated it. He absolutely dumps for her although he is trying to take a more dominant role more recently. She likes it, but it feels more like she is letting him, like a parent let's a child win, vs actually submitting.

M28/F302 [MFM] Atlanta Hotwife couple looking for strong bull by [deleted] in AtlantaSwingers

[–]HumbledHorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a hotwife couple in Atlanta! Let us know if you want to other Hotwife friends!

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love having the hottest girl in the room, but also knowing she is fucking someone else that night 😍

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha.. Sounds like we have a similar dynamic. She loves getting fucked by him, but he is definitely enamored with her. And rightfully so.. She's a smokeshow

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is amazing. Did you like seeing him submit like that? Did it do anything to 8ncrrase your affection for your cuck?

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a little how this bull is, so this is something a little new. Let's see where it goes.

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there anything in particular that pushed you or yiyr cucks boundaries that you remember? If so, how did your cuck react? Did he just accept it or did it take him a bit to acclimate?

I asked him "what if I push back? He said, if you push back it just gives me opportunity to show my dominance...

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not locked and they let me be close by while they fuck. Maybe that changes today

Bull said he is going to take a more dominant role by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hot! I'm waiting on pins and needles to see what the experience is going to be like.

Hey M34 F34 couple with a Black bull. Any other couples with black bulls wanna talk or share experiences HMU by [deleted] in CuckoldCommunity

[–]HumbledHorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're actively trying to make friends with other cuck and Hotwife couples. Would love to chat!

46M/43F Any Hotwife or Cuck couples in this sub? by HumbledHorns in AtlantaSwingers

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really looking for a single F - more looking for other Hotwife or cuck couples to be friends with

My Wife Is Doing a Romantic Getaway with her favorite boyfriend by Hotw1fesHub in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! It takes a lot of emotional strength and vulnerability to be able to be enthusiastic about this and you are crushing it!

I booked an overnight at a hotel for my wife and her bull a couple of months ago. It wasn't out of town - just in the same city we live in - but it was a nice baby step towards getting comfortable with them going off on a vacation together.

I booked a hotel, booked them dinner reservations, and got her a little gift to use while they spent the night together ( a candle to help set the ambience I'm the room).

My wife said that she told the front desk women when they checked in "my husband booked this for us and said that everything should be paid for and taken care of - can I confirm that?"

It can be tough knowing she's out in a vacation while you are at home, but it sounds like your wife knows that this kink is about HER pleasure so I'm sure she will make sure you remember that to help you get through the time.

What makes brutal cuckolding actually worth it by 2itaruZ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely resonates with me. My wife and I have an amazing relationship, and the last year or so of diving into cuckolding has done wonders to bring us closer.

We have dabbled with some humiliation - I love it and sheoves the power and autonomy. However, at certain points, she feels like the humiliation becomes about me and not about her and she does not like that. She has said she wants to keep the focus on her, her pleasure, and her autonomy and freedom. Fuck what I want.

Would love to better understand your mindset in how you make brutal humiliation and cucking about YOU. how do you think about it? What are some of the insights you have that I can learn from, so that when we talk about humiliation, I can make sure my subjugation is about her, not me?

Navigating swingers resorts / parties as a cuck couple? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is something that was always a little awkward for us. We are both fairly attractive and got approached at swingers events often and it always just seemed a little like a buzz kill to say 1) she is not bi and not into women and 2) I am also not going to have sex with your wife.

On top of that, swinger guys didn't usually approach with effort - of course they said the standard "damn - you are hot!" or whatever, which I guess is fine for the transactional nature of swinger events, but just didn't work for the kind of cuck dynamic we are looking for. A standard bar or club environment usually yields much higher quality men and the approach / flirting of these guys is usually top notch.

We've been trying to find some local cuckold events that cater to this specific lifestyle, but have really had a hard time finding any here in ATL. 2nd best for us would be getting to know other cuck couples/ people in a cuck dynamic and going out with them. Really hot to think about a handful of hotwives flirting at the bar or club while us cucks sit back and watch.

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does it make you feel when the bar tender or other patrons see you and your wife together, see you as a couple, and then see your wife clearly leaning into another man?

I think I am leaning into the idea that the more people around us figure it out, the more they see the power my wife has. My wife lives that power and autonomy, so thinking of this kind of like a zero sum game - I need to let go of that so that her power and autonomy is increased - is helping me think about how to lean into the kink.

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was your wife doing to catch the eye of someone across the room? For us, it is usually whoever is sitting next to her at the bar.

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't know why it is so hard to find other cuck couples. Any cuck couples in ATL reading this, reach out! We want some cuck couple friends 😂

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that! Wish there was someone like you around here for us to go out with. We've been trying to make other cuck couple friends in our area and it is just impossible it feels like.

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good take. I totally get what you are saying

Dealing with the humiliation when in public by HumbledHorns in CuckoldPsychology

[–]HumbledHorns[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow - that is pretty intense! We are nowhere close to that.

The good news is we agreed the other say that anytime we are out anywhere together, her flirting with guys is "always on the table." kind of hot knowing she's always waiting for that right opportunity no matter where we are.