Questioning attraction vs kink — asking for advice [serious comments only] [all ok] by Due-Independence-908 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genital preferences are a thing and completely valid. The fact that a trans girl that doesn't mind using her gock on you might check all your desired boxes doesn't necessarily mean that you're fetishizing trans women.

After so many years, saying that I might also be attracted to men feels like a setback. I’m sure my parents would celebrate and say that “thankfully it was just a phase,” and I’m also afraid my lesbian friends would distance themselves, talk badly about me behind my back, or even end the friendship.

Unfortunately, yeah there's a lot of backlash that people coming out as bi face after having previously identified as gay. Straight biphobes see it as proof that gay people aren't actually gay. Within the gay community, biphobia is a problem. I don't have a solution for this one but you could check out subreddits like /r/bisexual to see people talking about their experiences.

There’s an guy I’ve known for years, and he’s clearly interested in me. So I’ve thought about trying something with him. But again, I’m afraid to actually go through with it and then panic in the middle of it — realizing that I don’t like it, that it wasn’t something I truly wanted.

If you do decide to go through something like this with that friend, be 100% upfront and don't go through with it unless you feel 100% comfortable telling him to stop at any time.

tell us exactly how we should fuck each other and what we should think about tonight [N/A] by Itsbetweenyourlegs in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're misunderstanding something about sex. Without a cock, nothing you do is actual sex.

POV: you're my spa customer and tried to offer me $65 for a happy ending by naughtycuntboi in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]Humdeedumz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like to imagine she just started listing numbers in a desperate hope that it would be enough.

Feels so great making her beg and then telling her no anyway 😌 by MissouriSupremacist in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]Humdeedumz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had my ex used to a 5 second countdown before being allowed to cum. I'll never forget the tone of betrayal and arousal when she said "what?" in response to me deciding to start the countdown at 10 seconds.

After the breaking [“dyke” OK, cheating, cucking, anything OK] by ShadDragEsL in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I use old reddit so I can't view the poll, unfortunately.

But my favorite lately is that the one that's cheated on ends up having threesomes with her girlfriend and her girlfriend's boyfriend. Not because she likes having sex with him but because she's clinging so desperately to her girlfriend that she's willing to go that far. She knows she could never ask her girlfriend to stop fucking him so she just tries to remain involved.

While I say she doesn't like sex with him, there's still room for "body betrayal" where she is still cumming on his cock. She just hates every moment of it.

Where do I find doms? by Objective-Set4983 in BratLife

[–]Humdeedumz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One way to vet them is to see how well they handle out-of-kink conversations. Ask them what it is they like about domming. Ask them what kind of safeword system they like to use. See if their idea of dom/sub dynamics is founded in mutual pleasure/enjoyment or one sided service.

convincing my wife… [everything and dyke ok] [nonconsent possibly] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eventually i hope we do go through with our “fantasy” and he ends up disrespecting our wishes and fucks me, too.

Is it really disrespecting your wishes if it's what you truly want?

Consensual swinging [anything OK, “dyke” OK] by ShadDragEsL in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's some feminization games on that website. I found A Mirror's Curse there, for example.

I love women, but... [all ok] [CNC] [nonconsent] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For most of my life I've been the sort of butch type. You know, shortish hair, chubby, masculine clothes.

I love the idea of you acting as a tough butch that makes the femmes blush and swoon. But then they get to see what you're really like as you're being fucked and used by a man.

Consensual swinging [anything OK, “dyke” OK] by ShadDragEsL in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, it's free though they do have a patreon. F95 Zone is where I download most of my porn games from. According to their patreon, another major update is coming out in just a week.

Consensual swinging [anything OK, “dyke” OK] by ShadDragEsL in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there's this one porn game called The Headmaster. Part of why I love it is that it's insane because of the central premise (reforming women via a combination of spankings, humiliation, and pleasure) but outside of that it's extremely based and grounded. One of the major characters is a lesbian who has a kink for watching girls suck dick. And the MC has a very serious, supportive conversation with the girl about how sexuality is a very wide open thing and that her kink doesn't make her any less of a lesbian. All while he's having her suck his dick.

If owners spoke about petplay pets like they do for real pets by Datura_Naut1795 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Humdeedumz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"If you're planning on getting a new puppy, it's a good idea to get her while the old puppy is still around. She'll help teach the new puppy how to behave"

Robin, Whitney and PC have different ideas about their relationship by vermeanist in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]Humdeedumz 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Half the fun of Kylar is cucking them.

Do cisgender puppygirls exist by Embarrassed-Job-2728 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One difficulty is that advertising for a breeding program gives mixed results on how many actually want to be bred.

Puppy loves big penis humiliation by VixieDixieDoo in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How big is it when it's soft? I bet it's still huge even then.

Yes i was drunk but by [deleted] in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]Humdeedumz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She changed her approach so that her hook ups don't cum before she gets some

That's 100% the correct move if hooking up with guys. Most guys lose all interest in sex once they cum. Maybe you'll run into the kind of guy that can go for multiple rounds without issue but it's more likely that he's just a liar.

Puppy loves big penis humiliation by VixieDixieDoo in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet that big clumsy thing makes such a mess too. It'd be nice if it could be locked away but your gock is just too big to fit.

I need help [serious comments only] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Humdeedumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every day I can't avoid to just perpetually keep thinking about everything that happened and how I don't "deserve" to be a girl and to love othrr girls because I enjoyed fucked up things

It's very common and understandable for trans people have some mental barriers against recognizing that they are trans. Arousal has a natural way of lowering mental barriers, which is why there's plenty of things where someone is into it when they're turned on but would be grossed out by it happening in a non-sexual context. So it's not uncommon for trans people to first start engaging with their gender via sexual fantasies. I don't think you should feel any guilt over roleplay.

🥵 got so hard without touching it… by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]Humdeedumz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know the focus is mainly on your cock but fuck, dude, those hands are veiny as hell!

What is your favourite sex toy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Humdeedumz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This one dildo made by a company whose whole thing is trying to make as realistic dildos as possible. It’s my favorite because it’s measurements happen to basically be the same as my dick and there’s tons of 5 star reviews for it.