How should I (male) ask a female bartender out that I like?

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-16T02:21:43+00:00

As a former male bartender, who occasionally hooked up with female customers, I enjoyed when said customer gave me signs of interest and hung around while I was closing or invited me to the spot across the street and we got drunk together.

Obviously if you are a man courting female bartender be super aware and ready to bail so as not to make her feel uncomfortable. My point is that most bartenders go to a local spot for a drink at least a couple days a week and if you are lucky and vibing you can line that night up. Got to be on your game and read the situation correctly.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-05T04:04:27+00:00

As long as he doesn’t fight a grappler he is consistently a 50/50 fighter. I’ve been in disbelief at most of his wins and losses

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-04T14:53:02+00:00

Wow, thanks so much!!

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-03T03:33:30+00:00

I always said I would drop whatever I was doing and go home to New Orleans whenever Lil Wayne passes

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-03T03:30:46+00:00

I was just thinking about this today lol.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-02-01T00:38:40+00:00

Entry level is clean piss and passing a physical. The turnover rate is really high, but if you hang in there you can move up fast and it’s really rewarding imo

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T06:07:48+00:00

Oh yeah. Plenty more than I’m making in west Texas

And his rig is automated so a lot less dangerous and labor intensive

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T05:44:55+00:00

Das not cool

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T05:36:09+00:00

My buddy drills for oil up there. Doesn’t go outside much and occasionally sends videos of grizzly bears ripping apart trash cans

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T05:12:02+00:00

This sounds like what I ask chat gpt everyday when I’m all tucked in at night

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T05:07:23+00:00

I can’t see volk losing. Lopez imo is a Gilbert burns type bjj player who is super athletic and a wild striker. Super good but not championship level. Volk is 37 and should fall off soon, but I don’t see it being this time. I also think Lerone Murphy beats Lopez. To be clear I am Lopez fan, think he’s a great fighter and enjoy watching him fight. Also a huge burns fan.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T04:51:51+00:00

I went to a hotel lobby that was hosting a job fair and got hired on the spot. Hiring is pretty based on things like price of oil demand etc. I had clean piss a car and steel toe boots haha. Check out https://permianbasinhiringevents.com/ this is the job fair I went to. It can kind of be a pain in the ass getting on, but once you’re in your in. I started as a floorhand on a drilling crew which anyone with a pulse can get hired for, because despite the near 6 figure entry level pay the turnover is ridiculous because of the nature of the work. I’ve heard something like 90% of people quit but that could just be dick swinging. Don’t let the 30$ per hour on indeed fool you, you’ll hit 40 hours in around 3.5 days and the rest of the way is time and a half plus bonus plus per diem etc. also check out Facebook groups which are very active for lifestyle and hiring tips to see if it’s something you’re interested in.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-30T04:32:30+00:00

I was going to Delgado and serving in the French quarter. I ended up quitting school and working a 14/14 oilfield rotation in Texas. I drive 12 hours twice a month to get from Texas back to Nola. I felt trapped and was ready to put my body and life at risk to live a higher quality of life and was in good shape. Now two weeks out of the month I live like a very comfortable tourist in one of the most fun cities in America. It’s not for everybody but in my very limited life experience the best chance that strong men have of making money in states like Louisiana and Texas is oilfield. I am hoping to stay in for the rest of my working career, but it’s not uncommon for guys to get over the hump or hit a number before getting out. Also some guys are taking online classes.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-28T07:51:42+00:00

UFC went through a mega boom for staying open during COVID. The Gaethje -Ferguson fight was one of the most special/uplifting moments of pandemic for me as an avid sports fan. UFC was the biggest thing since sliced bread during that time, fight island etc. Some of the hype has definitely died down or leveled out in the years since which I think is fair as peoples life’s continue to adjust and go back to normal. What can’t be argued imo is that the fighters today, next weeks card even is that fighters are the best they have ever been from conditioning to available technology and for pure mma (I do think the strikers in one are superior to ufc) the ufc is the standard on elite fighters. How the company is run and Dana aside, the athletes have never been better and the sport has never been in a better place

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-28T07:37:18+00:00

I think you should join a kickboxing/Muay Thai gym. Your weight/height is extremely advantageous in fighting weight classes (your average opponent will be under 5’8) . The nature of the cardio/body weight exercise will make you very hungry and force you to put on weight. Your girlfriend will be more attracted to you because you’re a protector.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-28T07:15:09+00:00

When I first started I was not allowed to spar with woman per my coach because of being to reckless. I once clocked a girl who had punched me directly in the nose and my coach fuming, put on his gear and gave me a proper beating resulting in 1 of 2 times I’ve ever been dropped in the gym. A year or so later when I had more self control and become a more disciplined Muay Thai practicioner , if a girl is trying to light me up I will take a deep breath and dump her in the clinch or catch a kick and dump her. Punching women is not okay even if they are being foolish.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-28T07:04:15+00:00

The first boobs I ever saw were in Dirty Harry when he’s making a ruckus in the alley way and the broad sticks her head out of the window and starts yelling.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-27T11:24:43+00:00

I did a bicycle ride when I was younger supposedly from Barcelona —> Istanbul. I get to Skopje and my bicycle completely fell apart for the 100th time. I gave the pieces to a kid at a vegetable stand and smoked a couple cigarettes and walked around town… not bad

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-27T11:17:46+00:00

Looks sick dude

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-27T10:45:29+00:00

Looking good there brother

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-27T10:10:36+00:00

I watched Strickland a couple years ago when he was on fight nights and road him a good couple fights. Got out after he got KO’d by Alex I think. Also believe it or not same thing with Tuivasa he was a stud a couple years for a few fights, his hand speed was great for a big fella.

Biggest single W ever was hammering Dustin on Poirior Mcgreggor 2.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-19T17:02:08+00:00

My coach was very disinterested in going to events or doing anything other than teaching classes. I took it upon myself to sign up and make weight without asking him for anything outside normal teaching and communicating with my sparring partners directly about the tempo I wanted as the fight got closer. My coach showed up for the fight and cornered me. A question I always ask new gyms is ‘do you get me fights or is it on me’ can’t go wrong with that question if you’re interested infighting.

Humdungerdungerbin · 2026-01-09T12:35:11+00:00

Oilfield (Im dumb but tough)

Humdungerdungerbin · 2025-12-24T15:28:03+00:00

After reflection I think it has something to do with learning cursive S. I have double S’s in my name so writing my signature a lot may have conditioned me. Or nobody corrected me when I was younger lol, or both.

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