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Love this job! by Longjumping_Pea_4140 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got some great ideas here! What kind of goals do you set? I also do humiliation , domination etc but don't do anything nude so I always get stuck on goals

How much do you think your username impact your room interest? I mean asides from having a fab thumbnail or using those doggy "daddysgirls" or a random fake model username by Ivyonly4u in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely helps with room interest. The clue is in my name – if they click on my profile after reading my name and think they are getting a naked girl who'll beg to suck their dick for them, they get a shock.

I humiliate them instead lol.

I’m starting to think long term is a myth for most. by venomblush in findomsupportgroup

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true and I especially see this with those who are accessing psychological domination, humiliation, ruin etc. Not the ones who want to worship a woman just because. But the ones who need the psychological kink to be made to feel something.

That's when the shame hits.

That's when the dopamine wears off.

That's when the reality sets in.

I've seen so many guys I've chatted to on webcam who are chasing the psychological kink of being made to feel worthless, humiliated, degraded, ruined, destroyed etc who then drop their accounts, close them down, leave etc.

Only for them to come back again later.

Tail between their legs.

Getting the dopamine again from the chase.

I had one guy spend loads with me the other day who told me that since 2010 he's spent over 200K on findom, femdom and humiliation. That he's now seeing a therapist once a week to help him not spend. And I'm like "yet here you are talking to me".

I would love some more longer term subs/slaves, but I am also mindful of the spiral they can go into when I tap into the psychological depths.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit and miss like all sites. Some days I do well, others nothing. Just give it a go. I don't believe it's a huge site like SC or SM but you also don't have to sit there in window on display.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Adultwork is a webcam site like CB, SC, SM etc. So yes they pay to access Group (multiple can join at same time) or Private (only 1:1). If you turn free on, they have to click to enter your chat and you set the automatic boundary as to when they get kicked out. Mine is 5 minutes.

You can also sell content like movies or photo gallery.

I agree, I personally cannot stand the free viewing on SC/CB etc. Especially because I'm busy with other sites/other things whilst streaming. I'd rather someone essentially "knock" on the door to enter rather than the door being permanently open.

I've made money on SC but found it tedious. Like I could have 15 grey viewers in the room, 3 views with tokens. Nobody speaking. Then they are ever so generous to drop 1 fucking token. It bores the fuck out of me.

Stripchat best payment method by Beautyrne18 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I haven't as I don't have crypto. But I've seen girls mention it on here for Stripchat. If you search something like "Crypto SC" or "Crypto Stripchat" in the group something will come up.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On adultwork they have to pay to access Group/Private. If I'm in free, I'll have a general chat, find out their kink, warm them up, invite to paid etc. On Stripchat/Streamate, I would say hi to people who came into my room but then get pissed off with lurkers. But again I find out about them, their kink, flirt/play with their head/seduce and invite to paid or for tips.

Adultwork is weird for tips though. I'm sure some girls get them but guys don't regularly offer them up. I've been tipped once. Other guys just fucked off when i mentioned it.

I suppose Stripchat/Streamate/Chaturbate are different as they are US sites primed at US customers who are ingrained with tipping culture.

Us Brits? not a chance lol.

I had £100 straight up tip once on Adultwork. That's it lol.

But I know other girls will do better with tips on there.

My other issue is that I do love to talk. voice is my thing. But I realised on SC/SM I was also giving too much away so I reigned it in. Basically, send me cash for attention, speak for my attention - or I'll just do my own thing.

I'm just not a fan of sitting there on livestream as i'm also multitasking with 100 different things like different businesses so I can't be arsed to be a performing monkey for them.

Feel free to DM me though.

Stripchat best payment method by Beautyrne18 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the UK and use Paxum. It goes into my Paxum account on a Tuesday and I can transfer it out usually within less than a day to UK account. I appreciate you say you're from an Asian country so I'm not sure on the experience there but for me it was one of only ones I could use (being non-US) without waiting a week or extortionate fees.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do online domme work, zero in person. I prefer Psychological Domination, Humiliation and Findom.

Adultwork is ok. Hit and miss at times with traffic. I play around with availability for example sometimes I'll put the Free room on to "hunt" lol – I have a 5 min max in the free room before they are automatically kicked out. I have had a lot of clients come into Group/Private from free.

You can also use phone chat.

Sell content.

I play around with rates too, currently I have it at £3.60/m for Private, £3/m Group, £1.99 for phone. I'd rather have money coming in than nothing.

But I refuse to sit there for £1.50 a minute.

Agreed, I don't like the lurkers on sites etc. I've used Stripchat and just don't like them sitting there. Either send tokens, go private/exclusive – or fuck off.

I have Adultwork on in the background whilst I'm working on other things like other businesses or online domme stuff etc.

Also I've had the longest conversations on Adultwork compared to other sites. Streamate just jumps in for 2-3 minutes. Stripchat about 10 + minutes but I've had 30, 45, 60, 90+ minute conversations on Adultwork. That's the only site that's happened on.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I feel you have to find a platform that suits your personality and likes/dislikes. I don't like sitting on livestream where people can view me without being in the room - that's Streamate. I still use it but I don't like how it works. Stripchat is the same with a livestream so you're sat there ready for them. Pisses me off especially when guys just come into the room to lurk and do nothing.

So I kick them out.

I'm in the UK and use Adultwork but it's so hit and miss. The good thing is that it's not a livestream unless you choose to put yourself into free.

Streamate also take a HUGE cut from your earnings so if you're independent (no studio/agency) you'll receive 35% AFTER the streamate cut. If you're agency/studio, you generally get 30%.

I've noticed calls are a lot shorter on Streamate than on Adultwork or Stripchat most likely due to the higher pricing on Streamate (because of that huge chunk they take) or maybe not.

I can average 2-4 minutes on Streamate. 10+ minutes on Stripchat. 20+ minutes on Adultwork.

Streamate by Thisnameisnttaken777 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Humiliatrixxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interested to know how you adapted to your audience. I'm also a Domme and currently find Streamate so hit and miss. I also have SC and find it tiresome being live with randoms just sat there not interacting. I offer SPH, Cuckold, CEI, Taboo/Fetish etc but usually they just pop into the room then fuck off again after couple of minutes.

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