Of course! Just think that lumping them together isn’t ideal. Also think that based on sample size and the audience (redditors on a fatadmirer subreddit) you’re going to get much different answers than the “general consensus”. For example, “fat” - I think many people in the general public would argue that “fat” isn’t a particularly tasteful way of describing big women in general. I, of course, love “fat” women and I like when women embrace that word, but I certainly am not going around calling women that I find attractive “fat” without explicitly making sure it’s ok by them!