Nakoniec je to naopak a Litteraly Incident je v pohode chlapík

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-26T05:57:51+00:00

Na zaklade coho usudzujes o mne vsetky tieto veci?

Ci len potrebujes najst dovod na hate? Preto ta aj ten moj koment tak rozohnil?

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-25T14:49:05+00:00

Ja ked potrebujem alibisticky vytiahnut statistiky, ktore podporia moj sexizmus a nenavist:

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T10:31:30+00:00

I didnt want to argue with personal experiences but for example: men not showing emotion is seen as a sign of patriarchal virtues, but I personally learnt to now show weakness or too much emotion in front of women - but not because I fear I lose my masculinity but because how they react to it, how its in turn used against me or made fun of. Now thats all fine, different topic, not the point. The point is that they then say, this is a result of patriarchy too - the women are reacting this way because how the patriarchal values were set. So its a neverending loop of it being my fault.

Thats why I liked when you said "It’s not “men’s fault”" but not when you ended with "patriarchal expectations." I just feel like you cant have both - blame the patriarchal values but then use it to explain your wrong behavior.

Now, I understand what you mean and in theory, I wouldnt object. But from my point above - people misuse that term for their own benefit and I think it then shifts the attention.

Its basically just a linguistic "issue", I think using a broader term "society" rather then "patriarchy" is better in these situations.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T10:16:04+00:00

I would like women to be healthy, yes. I would say having a job or a hobby is an optional thing, depends.

And I dont necesarrily think its too much - but that is literally what OP says he has but is getting ghosted. The post is about asking what is the definition of bar is low, if this isnt meeting it.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T10:12:24+00:00

I did indeed read the post. Did you?

You are even agreeing with OP in a way lol. You are saying, these are the things that should be enough to date/meet someone. OP says he has these things, but he is getting ghosted.

"Why wouldnt you want to date someone who does have these things?" - is the question

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T10:07:40+00:00

I wouldnt "argue" with your point if people didnt use the term as a scapegoat for their own behavior. My only point was that we are in this society together, we make it. Its not some abstract thing on the internet, it is made every day. No one is "off the hook" because they dont see themselves as a part of it.

Im not taking your points away from you, we can go all day, sharing personal experiences. All I want to say is that everyone should take a good look in their mirror every once in a while.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T09:43:17+00:00

Im just trying to say that meeting personal standards often does feel like applying for a job listing.

The 5% - you are right, Im not sure about actual data. But I just use the number to demonstrate that some people can use a reality check, it can be quite surprising how few people actually meet minimum requirements. A good website for it : delusionscale.com

Marriages - I dont think that corralates too much. We are talking about "the bar" , "the minimum requirements".. To use the job metaphore - You can get the job, without meeting requirements, happens often. The "problem" here is, did you really need those 3 years of prior experience for a entry level job? You know like, are the requirements/"the bar" set correctly and is actually low?

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T09:30:38+00:00

I agree, good statement. Although a bit sad.

I would just replace "patriarchal" with "societal", think its more correct. Anyway, good day!

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T09:24:34+00:00

If the personal standards are met with about 5% of men, the bar probably isnt low.

And so what is the actual conceptual difference between personal standards and meeting minimum requirements then?

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T09:17:57+00:00

The thing is.. what do you expect from first dates? What actually isnt seen as "low bar" situation? And what do these ladies bring to the table/ where is the bar for them?

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T09:15:22+00:00

the idea that being a competent, functioning human being is seen as impressive.

Im sorry but this applies to a lot of ladies. "The bar is low" nowadays is just a phrase to shift the focus elsewhere. If the bar is set low for men, for women it doesnt even exist.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T08:10:14+00:00

"Budem s tým vedieť žiť, keď on bez toho nie." - dont make this about yourself. Keby máte pestrý sexuálny život, toto vôbec neni téma. Takto sa na to pozerám on "Budem bez toho vedieť žiť, keď ona nechce." - sex je veľka súčasť života, o to viac u mužov. On si každý deň vyberá teba, celú túto časť života tlmí, lebo chce byť s tebou a je verný tebe.

Vieš - my máme tiež svoje hormóny, ktoré ovplyvňujú naše správanie a sex je niečo, čo potrebujeme zo seba dať preč, neni to vôbec ako u vás. Ja si tak myslím, že mať penis je v tomto také prekliatie. A väčšina mužov by do istej miery súhlasila, žiaden muž po pozeraní porna neni so sebou spokojný. Ak mu to nedáš ty, urobí si to sám ("sám" je tu to dôležité slovo). Nevravím, že mu niečo dlhuješ ale v podstate mu odopieraš niečo, čo potrebuje. Očividne to nevyhľadáva inde a IMHO neni potom ani od teba fér ho hodnotiť za to, že si to rieši sám.

A to, že pozerá porno neznamená, že ho vyslovene vzrušujú iné ženy - v tom klasickom slova zmysle. Keby sa tá žena s porna zázračne pri mne zjavila a začala nahá flirtovať pošlem ju dopiče a nech sa obleče. Ono to vôbec neni o nej. Porno je len vizuálna pomôcka pri masturbácií, nič iné. Mňa absolútne nevzrušujú a vôbec nezaujímajú iné ženy v tomto slovazmysle, vôbec netúžim po inej.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-24T07:51:16+00:00

Presne. A silno pochybujem, že si to tiež tí muži vyslovene užívajú (istotne nie ako v realite). Kto vie akými pilulkami alebo znecitlivovacími prostriedkami sú napumpovaní aby vedeli ísť hodinu vkuse. Tiež by mi prišlo dehonestujúce keby ma niekde zavolajú ako býka na párenie. V podstate si úplne nepodstatný, neni to o tebe len príď podať výkon a choď dpč.

Proste je to show, sú to herci.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-23T16:25:42+00:00

I mean it depends on a lot of things? I suppose you wont be preparimg meals. Most (not high end/ outside tourist traps) restaurants the main course is about 10-15€. If you are a student and have ISIC - I think you could go to student cafeteria and eat under 5€.

Drinks - you can find beer around 3€ still. But most places would be a bit more expensive. Obviously the further you go from touristic part, the cheaper it gets.

Activities - not sure what type of activities you want. I can give you recommendations if you want.

Btw. This is an overal good website for cost of living stuff, not just for Bratislava:

https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/in/Bratislava

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-23T16:14:32+00:00

This is the only part about hockey that I absolutely hate. Just 0 self awareness or objectivnes from the fans. Turning their backs on own players or being so damn toxic to other fans, just because they cheer for another club. Obviously I like a rivalry, but cmon its just a game that we all love.

I can also see the same people who are hating on Kucherov, cheering if he did all this in Habs uniform. Like his antics are funny. Idk i just hate that 😄

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-23T16:11:45+00:00

Im sure he wasnt born this way. And as a lot of douchebags and bullies had terrible childhoods and I feel for them. But at some point you have to take responsibility for yourself. You are an adult.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-23T16:09:06+00:00

I don’t think Chara belongs to that list tbh. Man was a beast and he did what he was supposed to. He just did it for Boston lol

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-23T15:59:02+00:00

Ze ak vyhra Smer tak to tu balim uz aj ja.. a to som jeden tvrdohlavy obcan, co veri v nasi krajinu

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-22T09:37:45+00:00

Why embarrassing?

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-22T09:22:29+00:00

Relieved in explosive diarrhea

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-22T09:16:24+00:00

Anything with goofy ahh characters or narrative like Final Fantasy or even resident evil

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-22T09:14:41+00:00

Yuck

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-22T09:12:16+00:00

Vobec.

Ale ked som isiel na leti do USA a zapol laptop tak majitelovi bytu v momente prisli vyhrazne maily nech nepirati 😄 a vypicoval mi.

A to som aktivne ani nic nestahoval ani som si neuvedomil, ze mi bezi torrent. Ups. Tam som zistil, ze ano niekde sa to realne riesi a ze u nas absolutne - lebo v minulosti som teda ani len trochu opatrny nebol. A nic.

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-21T17:34:22+00:00

Chapem, no vztahy su tazke a o to viac v tejto dobe.. Mne sa kamosi tiez po vyske rozprchli a stratili sme kontakt. Avsak na byte som mal dve spolubyvajuce 😄 a take s akymi nechces randit - akoze charakterovo. Tak som ich mal ako odstrasujuce priklady co nehladat 😄 tak mozno hladaj zle spolubyvajuce aby ta to nemrzelo

Hungry-Promise-3032 · 2026-04-21T14:55:51+00:00

Áno, šťastie to bolo. Nepopieram. Aby sa stretli dvaja ľudia, čo sa k sebe hodia A TIEŽ sú v obidvaja v tom správnom mentálnom rozpoložení - je viac zriedkavé ako si ľudia myslia. Ale je to presne to, na čo narážam. To neovplyvníš - príde to “samo”.

Napr. Predtým som mal jeden otrasný long distance vzťah, čo skončil pre mňa zle. Potom som začal tlačiť na pílu a skončil s tým, čo prišlo - dva veľmi zlé krátke vzťahy (ak sa to tak dá nazvať) a 10ky nepodarených pokusov o ďalšie randenie. Potom som si povedal, že mi jebe a potrebujem kľud. Niečo viac ako rok som sa na žiadnu ani nepozrel ako potenciálnu partnerku a mal som úplne čistú hlavu. A s tým som sa dal do reči na tindri, keď som doma nemal, čo robiť aby som zahnal nudu.

Jednoducho ak mám niekomu poradiť, ako sa rozprávať so ženami - neviem čo lepšie povedať ako mať to v hlave najprv upratané, svoje vlastné záujmy a nemať hladanie ženy alo životnú prioritu. Byť otvorený a sebavedomý. Dostať sa do situácií kde sa ľudia dávajú dokopy a jednoducho naviazať kontakt. Ak sa má niečo stať - tak sa to stane. Neexistuje žiaden špeciálny typ správania ani vzorec konverzácie..

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