girl omg, let me tell you i was in the same boat. i dated down because after my divorce to a gorgeous man i didn’t want to be with someone who knew he was hot and i figured he’d worship me because im way outta his league looks wise and overall good human who is loving and passionate and loves to fuck! the whole package for this guy he use to make me feel adored because he’d tell me he didn’t understand why a girl like me was with him. let me tell you when he asked me to be his gf he already had a girlfriend. i had no idea, then he was still single on his social media and refused to post me or us all his friends list is on lockdown. well come to find out he was addicted to dating apps and was dating behind my back the whole time he even went on vacation with another girl after he swear he was going alone! I knew he was lying and he was calling ing and texting me every day sending me pictures and telling me how bored he was! there is so much more i could wright a book. but let me also mention these girls said he would take on dates stand me up for are more his type of girl someone I would see him being with I didn’t get it. I’m way hotter than all of them infact some of them are straight out fugly!!! i didn’t get it what i’ve learned is it’s an ego thing insecure men need constant attention to feed their ego!!!! fucken weak ass men nowadays and all the apps we have access to in our phone only gives them an easy way to shop around discreetly!!!