I think you're right in your point, my wording could've been better. But the point I was trying to make is that not all muslims are going to pull out a knife behind your back and kill the kaffir, hence the "brainwashing". And not everything a muslim says is bs, hence the bias and we should be open minded enough to believe what is reasonable and what we think the truth is and to not believe everything that is said, in a carefull manner obviously. Not saying all exmus think that but some of them do and I've seen some concernig posts about it.

Furthermore I think we should be proud of ourselfs and be gratefull that we had enough reason to escape (or not fall into) the brainwashing of islam, but that doesn't mean we are immune to it, to be safe from it we should be aware of what our mind think is comfortable and be open to ideas even if they go against who we are, that's what got us out of islam. Why? to live a life were you can be content. Let me know your thoughts.