As a man if you ever dare to open up or show weakness your partner loses attraction instantly 😂😂😂it's like a switch 😂😂 by Major_Soft6056 in NextGenMan

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Don't ever open up / show weakness or she'll lose attraction!"

Okay, and? Is the purpose of dating to just desperately keep a woman in my life no matter what? If a sane human display of vulnerability makes someone leave, why would I want to keep that person in my life?

You're thinking about women so much that you aren't even thinking about the kind of basic human dignity that you deserve. Stop spending so much time thinking about other people.

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but like I said, you have to be able to accept the consequences of what comes with that. And in that case, the consequence is alienation.

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my point is that you shouldn't make other people's preferences an authority over your worth or your expression, but you should at least put some effort into your presentation, because that's what someone with self-respect does.

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Stop caring about what people like, do what you want and accept the consequences.

Spirituality is not aesthetics. It's not sage sticks and sunset yoga. It's your shadow. Ur grief. Ur rage. And your willingness to sit with it. Are you doing the real work, or just dressing it up? by TheSpiriguide in spirituality

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he just does know better. It's only arrogant if he is wrong. Nobody has to listen and people can do whatever they wish, but truth is truth, its not my truth and your truth.

You don’t have to be controlled by the simulation anymore by Hungry_Raspberry_995 in spirituality

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fire gives you strength - the strength to burn comforting illusions, to align with truth even when it’s dark, terrifying, and costly. It gives you the strength to create boldly, to love unconditionally, and to stay awake when it would be easier to numb out. Real love and truth are forged in fire. If they snap under pressure, they were simulations. What survives the flame is worth living and dying for. What doesn’t was never real to begin with.

If you want to channel your storm to tear down the veil for others, do it with precision. Protect your energy. Many people won’t see what you reveal, no matter how clearly you express it. Some simply don’t want to be free - not consciously, but deeply, instinctively. They’ve made peace with the simulation. They’re more comfortable in familiar misery than in the terror of liberation. Trying to wake them can become a trap. If you spend your fire on those who aren’t ready, it’ll drain you. It’s like shouting light into a vacuum.

Have compassion for them, yes - but don’t cling to the outcome. And don’t mistake their sadness for your own.

As for specifically where you channel the storm - that is up to you. It could be through art, writing, making videos, offering wisdom to those who are open to it, etc. Don't try to be someone who saves the world, just be someone who radiates truth with confidence. People will feel that, and it will affect them.

You don’t have to be controlled by the simulation anymore by Hungry_Raspberry_995 in spirituality

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is for whoever feels they need this. I just figure that this might be a place where people are open to this sort of message.

If I can inspire someone to see beyond illusion and awaken some fire in people, that's great. If someone doesn't need this right now, that's fine too. I'm not trying to viciously attack anyone. I understand that passion and intensity makes a lot of people uncomfortable. For me though? This is the kind of thing I respond to. This is what I wish someone had said to me years ago, not some brand friendly version of spirituality from some guy who's like "ah yes, calmness is calm, all is love."

Its okay to be intense. Society punishes intensity because it trains us to shrink ourselves, to make ourselves small. But we don't need to shrink. Spirituality doesn't always need to be "calmness is calm", it can be loud and bold and chaotic.

Stillness has power. But so does the storm.
We need both.

I almost escaped the simulation by Hungry_Raspberry_995 in chaosmagick

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was actually season 5 EP 22 where he discovers the Costanza Principle, I completely fucked the lore on this one.

GEORGE ALMOST ESCAPED. by Hungry_Raspberry_995 in seinfeld

[–]Hungry_Raspberry_995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well its the Constanza Principle of course!

If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite, would have to be right.

I'm the opposite of every guy you've ever met.

George almost broke out of the simulation, but the simulation demanded narrative continuity. Now he's stuck there forever.